Nexus wiki pages

Here you can read and co-author and co-edit documents with colleagues.

A wiki is a collection of web pages that all users can directly edit and easily link among, without the help of a webmaster and without knowing (HTML) codes. Wikiwiki means fast, in Hawaiian.

The biggest example of collaboration in wiki is Wikipedia; more info on wiki there.

 

Structure of these wiki-pages

Streamlining all papers and texts that are produced in our wide community is not an easy job! You can help this by pointing your text to the right "parent" - see the box below the title box.

AND! As more and more content will be published we will all enjoy the use of tags. Tags are free categories that you relate with, apply to your text. Keep in mind that later on, people will use these tags to find the kind of text that you are producing now. Act individually, but think community!!

 

 

About Evolutionary Nexus - what it can also be

What can Evolutionary Nexus also be?

epiphanic patterns of possibility

 

"Pattern" means many things, depending on context. Here we refer to a pre-sensed reality described with:

 

• a short and evocative name

• the value it creates or enables

• a generative question that it raises

 

Pre-sensing is part of Presencing, and this wiki is an invitation to a collective presencing journey of what Nexus can be.

Collective presencing is a community art form to discover/invent together.

 

We can start it right now, right here.

 

First, turn off your mobile, cell, or handy, then use your favorite way to quiet the mind's inner chatter.
Take a few slow, deep breaths, and listen to the future whispering what it needs to have Evolutionary Nexus to become...

When you are ready, click on the "Edit" button at the top, and post your pattern.
Watch what may emerge from this page if we edit it only from an inner space tuned with the magic in the middle!

 

(The suggested numbering of the patterns below is only for easier referencing; it doesn't indicate an ordering by importance.)

 

- - - place held for patterns - - -

 

EN ep-1 Learning Field

 

Evolutionary Nexus can be a learning field and a playground where community members discover the principles and cultivate the practices of becoming wiser together, for the sake of the whole.

 

Can that field also be a learning field for the self-organizing collective consciousness of evolution as us?

 

EN ep-2 Collective Sensing Organ

 

Evolutionary Nexus as a collective sensing organ of the evolutionary movement, allows its parts to see themselves and each other in the context of the whole, thus optimize their combined contribution to the whole.

 

What qualities of the sensing organ enhance the communication between the local and global levels of the awakening social body?

 

EN ep-3 A Vortex of Innovation

 

If enough of us care about this possibility, Evolutionary Nexus can become a space of intensive experimentation in various domains of innovating and upgrading how we do work, society, learning, etc.

 

How can the very architecture of Nexus promote the sweet spot of innovation?

 

EN ep-4 Community Incubator & Hub

 

 

 

EN ep-5 Virtual Dojo

 

 

 

EN ep-5 Your turn to edit this space!

 

 

 

EN ep-6 Your turn to edit this space!

 

 

 

- - - end of place held for patterns - - -

 

 

How to jump-start a vortex of innovation?





To stir a vortex of innovation, by jump-starting the propeller,

engage first the center.

 

The 5 components of this innovation architecture all need attention when going for a sustainable move to the next level of social systems. The questions below give an easy, "first approximation" access to the essence of each, in the context of our work at Evolutionary Nexus.

 

Learning Innovation. What are the mission-critical knowledge and capbility areas for the communities hosted here? What knowledge gardening practices support them well? How are emerging trends in social learning are taken into account when designing a community's learning architecture?

 

Social Innovation. What new models of governance and decision making provide the best value to the communities applying them? What collaboration practices free and sustain the ecstasy of co-creation? What roles and responsibilities will have to be agreed so that the communities can thrive?

 

Technology Innovation. What is the best mix of electronic technologies that we can use to power up our social technologies of freedom? How can complex tech tools be demystified and made simple to use by all?

 

Business Innovation. What new models of value creation will attract the resources that Nexus and the communities it hosts will require for meeting their evolving needs and aspirations?

 

Aesthetic Innovation. "Aesthetic" in the center of the propeller means beauty, not in the sense of decoration but beauty in all our relations, in all what we do. It refers to the unspeakable quality that flows from the source of our every life-affirming thought and action. What is needed for every Nexus page to become a reminder of that quality?

 

Friends, which of these 5 domains do you feel so attracted to that you would want to step into a circle stewarding it?

If you feel inspired, click on the "Add new comment" link below.

Art of Hosting wiki

Here you find all wiki-pages (that can be edited by all members) related to the Art of Hosting Community.

You are invited to contribute!

 

Here you can read and co-author and co-edit documents with colleagues.

A wiki is a collection of web pages that all users can directly edit and easily link among, without the help of a webmaster and without knowing (HTML) codes. Wikiwiki means fast, in Hawaiian.

The biggest example of collaboration in wiki is Wikipedia; more info on wiki there.

 

Structure of these wiki-pages

Streamlining all the papers and texts produced in our wide community is not an easy job! You can help this by pointing your text to the right "parent" - in the box below the title box.

AND! As more and more content will be published we will all enjoy the use of tags. Tags are free categories that you relate with, apply to your text. Keep in mind that later on, people will use these tags to find the kind of text that you are producing now. Act individually, but think community!!

 

An Art of Hosting Pattern Language

A Pattern Language for the Art of Hosting

 

The Art of Hosting is not a methodological approach to hosting conversations. Rather it is a shared learning journey around patterns that make for creative and productive conversations that lead to higher levels of collective engagement and good work.

 

In this pattern language we are especially looking at how specific patterns work with large-scale conversation-based change within living systems. Please feel free to contribute thoughts here. At this point we are in the phase of collecting information about these patterns, how they work and how they show up in meetings and conferences as well as in other parts of human social life. On the final link we are considering a pattern language template, which we can use to structure the patterns consistently once we have enough information on each.

 

If you have any questions please contact Chris Corrigan: chris@chriscorrigan.com



The model

 

Here is a link to a post on Chris Corrigan's weblog that describes this amalgamation of mental models and world views.


The Art of Calling

The Caller
The threshold of longing
Seeing and Sensing
Intention
Iterative Invitation
Discerning the Need
A Purpose
A Calling Question
The Poetic Principle
Clarity
The Core Team
Strange Attractors

The Art of Hosting
Morning Practice
Personal Silence
Curiosity
Generative Polarities
The Fire in the Centre
Self-organization
Maps
Breath
A Circle
A Talking Piece
Emergence
Cafe Tables
A Marketplace in a village
A Bulletin Board
Defining the Need
The Cafe
The Centrepiece
The Rim
Collective Silence
Divergent Thinking
The Groan Zone
Convergent Thinking
Checking In
Checking Out
Powerful Questions
The Small Group
The Large Group
A Team of Hosts
Conversation
Simple Instructions
Stop talking
Interviews
A walk outside
The coffee break
Letting go
The Host

Roles and Archetypes
Elder
Student
Storyteller
Butterfly
Bumblebee
Warrior
Midwife

 

The Art of Harvesting
A Harvest
Friends catching up
Newspapers
Graffiti
The Griot
Gossip and nosiness
Knowledge made visible
The Artefact
The Feedback Loop
A Tablecloth
Doodles
Process Landscapes
Intentional Harvest
Emergent Harvest
Adaptive loops
Generative loops
The prototype
A journal
A co-created piece

The Art of Stewardship
The Steward
Practice
A Village
Giving
Fellowship
The threshold of memory
Ripples

Client

Coach

 

Mental Models
Chaos and Order
The chaordic path
Organizational forms
The Diamond of Participation
Six breaths of process design


Pattern Language Template

Client

Within an Art of Hosting training we aim at giving participants from early on the opportunity to learn by practicing. They will form little hosting teams to prepare parts of the next days program. In order to make this work, these little hosting teams have a Client - the one who gives them the task - and a Coach.

The Client will offer:

- the purpose of the session

- the context in which this needs to happen

- the challenge of the session

- the givens (timeframes, rooms, amount of people)

- the criteria for success

- the purpose of the harvest: immediate and/or beyond

- if appropriate: go beyond words - touch wholeness

 

Coach - in training hosting teams

Besides the role of the Client - in the training hosting teams - there is the role of the Coach, who is coaching the little hosting team in order that they can fulfill their assignment.

The coach will offer:

- a (deeper) teaching of the methodology

- availibility on the teams invitation

- create an agreement of the relationship

- support to be bold and wise

Pattern Language Template

This is a suggested template for our pattern language.  When we have enough material, let's write the pattern according to this format, to keep things consistent.

 

Of course this format s also editable, so please suggest and make changes if you think there is a better way to capture information about patterns.   

 

TITLE

 

PICTURE: "First there is a picture, which shows an archetypal example of that pattern."

 

CONTEXT: "Second, after the picture, each pattern has an introductory paragraph, which sets the context for the pattern, by explaining how it helps to complete certain larger patterns."

 

PROBLEM HEADLINE: "Then there are three diamonds to mark the beginning of the problem. After the diamonds there is a headline in bold type. This headline gives the essence of the problem in one or two sentences."

 

PROBLEM BODY: "After the headline comes the body of the problem. This is the longest section. It describes the empirical background of the pattern, the evidence for its validity, the range of different ways the pattern can be manifested in a building, and so on."

 

SOLUTION: "Then, again in bold type, like the headline, is the solution--the heart of the pattern--which describes the field of physical and social relationships which are required to solve the stated problem, in the stated context. This solution is always stated in the form of an instruction--so that you know exactly what you need to do, to build the pattern."

 

DIAGRAM: "Then, after the solution, there is a diagram, which shows the solution in the form of a diagram, with labels to indicate its main components."

 

CONTEXT: "After the diagram, another three diamonds to show that the main body of the pattern is finished. And finally, after the diamonds there is a paragraph which ties the pattern to all those smaller patterns in the language, which are needed to complete this pattern, to embellish it, to fill it out."

Scaling and Sustaining Social and Organisational Innovation - Communities of Practice

By Ria Baeck and George Pór

[Word version]

 

Seeds for a collaborative inquiry

Scale of reach

Forms of training

Distinguishing domains of community practice

The meaning of scale and the scale of meaning

Sustaining with communities of practice

We are already a community of practice - what are we practicing?

Invitation

 

There's a forum topic of conversation dedicated to what is outlined in this report, here.

 

Seeds for a collaborative inquiry ^top

There are a few things we know and many we don't.

We do know that to reach the scope of collective intelligence and wise action that humankind needs to survive, we must discover/invent the practices that connect us across time and geography. What needs to be co-created at any level (e.g. team, organization or a whole culture) calls for us to keep our connections fresh, current, receptive and capable of acting together with precision, in an instant, when that's what is needed. It calls for us to stay connected with the ongoing processes of our co-creation, our mates, the spark of inspiration in the eyes, and our collective knowing field. Not just for the time of a meeting, training, or conference call, but as a permanent condition of daily life.

What we don't know is: what are the best ways to "sustain action arising from collective meaning and purpose?" This question - that came in an email from Tim Merry on 25 July 2008 - struck a resonant chord in most who received it.

Following that, 10 of us said Yes to a conference call on 1 September. There was a preliminary call on 1 August "to identify some constructs about scaling and sustainability that could be put on the table as raw material for a broader conversation with more folks drawn to these questions." The participants were: George Pór, Phil Cass, Ria Baeck, Tim Merry, and Toke Møller. This report is based on the transcript of that call. We (Ria and George) have attempted to identify key patterns of meaning that emerged from the conversation. All the quotes are from the transcript.

We asked ourselves what had the most heart and meaning for each of us, as we listened to, then read and re-read the transcript. Below is our joint effort to articulate it. We imagine that somebody else reading the transcript could have come up with a different report. The full record of 10 pages is also attached, in case you are tempted to read it. There's much richness in the details that cannot be reflected in this summary.

 

Scale of reach ^top

"The essence of personal transformation, the essence of collective transformation, and the essence of structural innovation that serves life, all have the same DNA. It is probably our consciousness and our practice of consciousness that are the seed stones or elements of that DNA."

"Each of these pieces is deeply integrated but they are also essential distinct elements of how systems change can happen."

The awareness of those different scales was very present throughout our conversation. Here is another expression of it:

"There is that step of commitment to be a practitioner... Then there is when a core group of people makes a collective decision to be in practices that allow them to be a community of practitioners as one thing... Then there is the whole thing around assemblies, stakeholder conversations also becoming ongoing."

 

Forms of training ^top

Those different scales of reach that also represent different levels of complexity to work with, call for different forms of training.

An Art of Hosting training event provides individuals with the experience of hosting themselves, and introduces hosting as a new leadership paradigm and competence. To deliver that value, the trainers need to operate as a collective, a hosting team that acts as a core group inviting others into the hosting experience.

If the objectives of a training event include facilitating collective transformation in leadership teams as core groups, then "classic" AoH training may not be enough. "The Art of Participatory Leadership is a step beyond that, which means training in a leadership paradigm over time, in an ongoing, specific context." To deliver that value, the trainers need to operate from a broader scope, where the community or the organization as whole is the system in focus.

Scaling up yet further, when the need is to host the transformation of a whole organization (maybe with the yet-to-develop "Art of Evolutionary Leadership"?), then the hosting team has to operate from the next higher-level social field, the global one.

In short, the pattern here is that the hosting team must host from the next level up from the field they are hosting.

 

Distinguishing domains of community practice ^top

With each level of training, there is a corresponding level of community of practitioners, distinguished by whatever domain of practice is their focus. Subsequent levels build on familiarity with the practices of the previous one. These communities, at each level, support the shared practice even when the training is over, and help practitioners apply the principles of their art to emerging situations.

The foundational community is the AoH community of practice. Given the global spread of AoH practitioners, it is not one community, more like a network of inter-linking local AoH communities. Their distinguishing domain is hosting conversations that matter.

Building and expanding on that, there can be an Art of Participatory Leadership (APL) community. Its distinguishing domain is hosting sustainable relationships within and across ongoing core groups that host transformation.

Finally, when the domain is the transformation of a whole organization or social system, the CoP focusing on that domain can be called an "evolutionary leadership community."

Like any model or map, this is only an approximation of the territory, and needs fleshing out and refining by the practitioners themselves. The vibrant ecosystem of AoH is constantly producing new communal life forms, such as reading circles, place-based learning centers, and the fellowship of those who are dedicated to nurture the AoH/APL field as whole.

The following diagram is an at-a-glance overview of the patterns described so far.

 

Forms of training

Hosted by

Scale of reach

Sustaining through CoP domains of:

Art of Hosting: introducing a new leadership paradigm; first experiences with being a hosting team

a hosting team

Individuals, and their impact on their organizations or communities

principles and practices of AoH

Art of Participatory Leadership: implementing a new leadership paradigm over time in a specific context

a hosting community, including and bigger than the actual hosting team

core groups or hosting teams, responsible for hosting change initiatives

organizational transformation

Art of Evolutionary Leadership (?): sustaining large-scale systemic change

a hosting community, including "eagles:" wise advisors

organisations, networks, social systems

world-centric, multi-sectoral change work

 

The meaning of scale and the scale of meaning ^top

We started exploring what we mean by "scaling," why scaling is important to us, and how it is already happening. What follows needs more exploration and unpacking; it provides rich starting points for the continuing inquiry.

"People are building connections across previously fragmented pieces. That is how scale works: pieces start being connected. People enter into a relationship with each other that includes and transcends the purpose of the individual pieces."

Everything is scaling up. "The problems in the world are going to scale. The needs in the world are going to scale. Trust is going to scale."

But "we are not talking about large systems alone; we are talking about scale that is inside us!" The larger the scale of action, the broader is its scope, the greater must be people's commitment to their own personal evolutionary practices (see diagram below) if they are to be reliable and trustworthy practitioners of hosting transformation in self, organizations and society. Inner and outer work is not separable.

"Coming together around specific content in these new ways is about commitment to a long term journey together, this collective purpose that includes, transcends and sustains my personal transformation and consciousness, that is the underpinning of the collective change we are going through."

"You cannot take these practices apart, you cannot choose one or the other. You have to choose all of them - in your own way and whatever is possible in the context - but it is a deep essence that taking it apart, it may not be possible to create sustainable change that we can be proud of and has dignity for all."

What connects the inner and outer dimensions of scaling up is its meaning as "expansion, wider space where more can happen that is good."

Grounded in being the change that we want to cause, hosts of transformation recognize the specific systemic interdependences that underly what needs to be changed. At that point, they start seeking and finding allies for changing the defining context. That's how the purpose, the meaning of their work is scaling up.

"What are the operating practices that will allow large scale change to happen?" That is a question that begets the collective self-reflection of all those who are engaged in scaling up organizational or social innovation. What we do know is that large-scale change will not happen - cannot be be sustainable - if it is not integral.

The evolution of individual consciousness does not have an answer to all our crises; neither do improvements in our health, culture or technologies, especially if we overemphasize any of them at the expense of others. Large-scale change must be approached with an integral lens, including all "four quadrants" (Ken Wilber), or it will collapse, causing more problems than it tries to solve.

 

 

 

Sustaining with communities of practice ^top

"We know how to create community and relationship that has meaning in very short periods of time now, where we can sink into that quality of relationship. The challenge is now: How to build long-term sustainability into these relationships so that they continue creating magnificent things over time?"

Holding the "four quadrants" as a lens to that question, we see:

1. individual authenticity, commitment to evolve and host oneself (upper left)

2. evolving practices in hosting conversations that matter (upper right)

3. cultivating a culture of networked learning communities (lower left)

4. creating the right mix of technological and economic enablers (lower right)

The "lower left" work is part of the iceberg that Tim Merry referred to on the call: "I saw the tip of the iceberg in terms of some new thinking about Communities of Practice and how it relates to what is cooking in the Art of Hosting / Participatory Leadership field."

"Communities of practice are groups of people who share a passion for something that they know how to do, and interact regularly to learn how to do it better." -- Etienne Wenger. Communities of practice (CoP) are central to the strategy of "Using Emergence to Take Social Innovations to Scale."[1]

Many of us reading this report, are members of one or more such communities, thus directly benefitting from and contributing to them. Communities of practice[2], like any other social life forms, grow through stages of development. We have found both Etienne Wenger's 5-stage model[3] and NASA's and David Sibbet's 7-stage[4] model useful to illuminate that journey.

An important developmental shift occurs when a community of learners becomes a community that learns. The purpose of the first is to enable the members to benefit from the fruits of the group's shared knowledge and experience. The purpose of the second is the same, plus to advance the whole field of practice and knowledge and create social value.

Communities that learn develop a shared memory and continually augment their collective intelligence, thus both the capacity to respond to emergent challenges and opportunities, and resilience. A key enabler of that is a well-tended community knowledge garden that can be accessed anytime from anywhere.

We are already a community of practice - what are we practicing? ^top

"Art of Hosting was born out of people stepping into learning relationships to advance the field. That feels to me as rooted in CoP."

"In this call we are in a CoP, we are practicing what we are talking about!"

Yes to both, and CoPs, like any other life forms, go through stages of development. In the coalescing phase, we recognize the value of learning/training together and engage in it. In the maturing stage, which the AoH community is now beginning to enter, we need to learn to pay shared and sustained attention to our community knowledge garden. That includes the AoH website, blogs that hosts write, the AoH lists, and the AoH community site at Evolutionary Nexus. How can the wiser uses of that garden increase its value to all members and their stakeholders? This is a central question in the life of all maturing CoPs.

"CoP yes, but what are we practicing?"

The first practice is the same as "a core element for going to scale (and to become sustainable over the long run): Hosting oneself within a hosting team that is committed to a purpose."

Another practice connects us with the social technology of Theory U. "The piece of AoH in the U-process is part of the envisioning innovative structural change, and then the requirements to be in that kind of relationship to oneself and to each other to sustain the consciousness that lives below the structural innovation that we bring into communities. " It is also a practice "to stay in this chaordic space and to go there again and again."

Yet another practice is to " intentionally sow the seeds for CoPs, with AoH and Art of Participatory Leadership trainings." That also means to make transformation stick, to be sustainable, when supported by communities of practice at any scale shown in the "Domains of CoP" table. The practice includes increasing our individual and collective capacity to assess the community-readiness of the situation and engage the process of hosting the community when that is called for.

Of course, these are only examples. The question "what are we practicing?" is a precious question to hold, not to give a definitive answer to. In fact, holding that question in the community's shared attention and meaning-making processes is a way in which CoPs evolve.

 

Invitation ^top

"I think what we are inviting here - and being invited into through the work we are involved in - deserves that we have a conversation, so something gets sharper that we invite others into. I am sensing an ongoing circle spiraling into more and more clarity. "

That conversation can take place by combining recorded conference calls and in-person dialogues, when we are lucky to in each other's company, in the AoH community blog and wiki at Evolutionary Nexus. If you feel called to participate, you are invited.

 

Contact: Ria.Baeck(at)community-intelligence.com



[1] By Margaret Wheatley and Deborah Frieze, http://www.evolutionarynexus.org/node/620/

[2] An excellent introduction to the concept is here: http://www.ewenger.com/theory/communities_of_practice_intro.htm

[3] See diagram at http://www.elearningeuropa.info/extras/img/think.gif, from Wenger, E., R. McDermott, and W. Snyder, Cultivating Communities of Practice. 2002: Harvard Business School Press.

[4] See: http://wiki.nasa.gov/cm/wiki/?id=2698

Patterns of moving into and out of community

A new map: talking our way to a decision

I was working with a group yesterday that was making a number of small decisions as they worked their way through an agenda.  The meeting was semi-formal and my role as facilitator was mostly to hold space and draw attention to process where appropriate.

 

I let the group talk, asked questions from time to time and noted the decisions that they had made.  As I was observing this group working, I noticed something interesting about their process.

 

Frequent readers will know that I use the diamond of participation often as a map to organize and design meeting processes. 

One feature of the diamond is the three phases that groups go through, from divergent thinking through emergent thinking to convergent thinking.  There are noticiable transitions between these three phases, with groups becoming quiet when the hit the groan zone, and the energy becoming lighter when concrete proposals and decisions begin to emerge.

 

Yesterday I was watching the pattern of the conversations in the group and I noticed that the language changed.  Participants began and ended each journey through the groan zone using lots of “I” language and while they were in the middle, there were lots of “we” statements.  A typical agenda item began with one partcipant introducing it with a personal statement or a question.  The group listened and then replied with further I statements.  These responses were a combination of personal questions and personal responses to ideas.  Typically I heard things like “What I\m wondering about is…”, “I don’t like that idea very much…” “I can see your point…”

 

As the conversation unfolded however, there was a shift to “we” and group members began exploring ideas that were in the best interests of the group. People seemed less preoccupied with their own ideas and began working on the emerging ideas that were capturing energy.  There was the occasional drift back to “I” language but for the most part I heard things like “We could do it like this…” “We don’t have the time or resources for that…” or “How else could we do that?”

 

Finally, you could tell the conversation was coming to a close when people started discussing the personal implications of the emergent decision.  “Okay, so I will make that change to the timetable…”  “I like this choice…” and so on.

 

Not just a flow from I -> WE -> I, but I also noticed that the conversation went from curious to concrete, and that this map took the form of quadrants, similar to the ones I have worked with before.  This observation is in line with Otto Scharmer’s Theory U, and this diagram above shows the path the conversation took also shaped like a U, with the group going from inquiry which opened up options to concrete decisions and implementation plans.

 

The cool thing about this map of patterns is that it gave me enough for to be able to hold very lightly the conversational space that the group was in.  I watched them go through this process something like 15 times over the course of the day and only a couple of times did they get stuck.  When they did, it was simply a matter of consulting the map to see what to do.  I intervened at least one in each of these four quadrants, something like this:

  • Asking for more clarity in personal introduction of agenda ites, and alos inviting the person introducing the item what they are curious about.
  • Helping the group see emergent ideas as they were taking shape and asking about the nature of the ideas rather than people’s personal preferences or thoughts.
  • Inviting people to concretize what they were hearing, and to explore the implications of one option over another.
  • Inviting personal responsibility and ensuring that implementation plans were in place for each decision.

Simple, but this is value of having maps at your finger tips to help find your way through the wilderness of emergent conversation.

 

Why does this matter?

 

As a basic pattern for individuals participating in groups, this pattern may be foundational to creating and sustaining communities of practice.  As hosting practitioners we can attend to the conditions of the container that invite these stages of participation.  They line up well with Scharmer\s work and with William ISaacs work on the four stages of dialogue as well.  

 

These are useful maps for beginning the conversation on practices for foster the community part of CoPs.

Three essential domains for moving to communities of practice

Originally published at my weblog, Parking Lot...

 

 

I’m working a lot with communities of practice these days, or more precisely, teams and groups that aspire to becoming communities of practice.  In seeking to be simple about the process of moving from a group to a deeper community, I’ve been designing meetings using this map, to ensure that we give equal weight to work, relationships and co-learning.  In my experience, when we do that we set the conditions for a group to become more cohesive and to discover new learning and emergent solutions to the issues on which they are working.  This is a design tool, a map to help us keep what’s important in mind.  Within each of these three domains are a plethora of practices and tools, and all of these need to be applied wisely, but I am finding this 30,000 foot view useful.

Work

Of course the reason for meeting is to do work. Getting clear on this is important, and I use several different maps for helping groups come to clairty about the work they need to do. My favourite at the moment is what we call the chaordic stepping stones, which is a logical procession of moving from need to structure and practice by anchoring everything we are doing in what is needed at the moment. Gaining clarity on what our work is is important.

Tools for gaining clarity on work include design tools like the diamond of participation, the chaordic stepping stones and other project planning tools that invite clairty about questions and harvest insights back into the team’s work.

Relationships

For groups to be more than just collections of individuals, they need to focus on their relationships. Relationships are the glue that keeps work sustainable. When we pay attention to how we are together it creates the conditions for our work to excel over the long term. Teams or communities that have to focus on toxic, competitive or unhelpful relationships spend too much energy caught in conflict and difference and can’t get real work done. At the outset of working with a team or community of practice, it’s important to identify relationships as a key capacity leading to innovation, excellence or success. And when things go sideways, having solid relationships in place ensures that hte group can find a way out quickly and effectively.

Tools to support good relationships include using participatory and inclusive processes like World Cafe or Open Space Technology and spending time listening to one another’s stories and perspectives. A list of principles like these ones help groups focus on what is important in the container of their work. Good process matters..

Co-learning

If an individual or a group is wanting to become innovate or to think or practice its way to another level of work, learning is essential. At a personal level, cultivating curiosity is critical, so that individuals enter work, practice and conversations with questions that guide their participation in an endeavour. Conceiving of these as a learning journey is very helpful in this regard.

Beyond individual learning, collective learning or co-learning is the fastest way to breathroughs. Engaging in collaborative inquiry, co-presencing and co-realizing a la Otto Scharmer’s Theory U is important to keep a group on the edge of its own learning. Groups need to practice fearlessness to try to embrace new ideas and new ways of doing things.

Tools to support this work include learning journeys, appreciative inquiry, co-presencing and ongoing high level conversation about what a team is learning - a meta-level process.  

Alive in the intersecations

The intersection of work and relationships results in one feeding other and leasd to sustainability in the kinds of endeavours one is undertaking, especially when the going gets tough.  At the intersection of work and co-learning is innovative thinking that helps to drive work to new levels.  At the intersection of co-learning and relationships is where a group comes to see itself as more than just a team, and learns new ways of being together and new forms of connection that serve the greater purpose.

And of course at the centre of it all is the possibility of community, arising out of a balanced approach to all three domains.

To give this model a test run, think of a number of groups you are currently involved in and think about what you hunger for in them.  It’s likely that you are paying attention to just one or two of these domains, and that the missing one contains the thing that you hunger for.

 

I realize some of these concepts may be unfamiliar, or couched in strange language, but the idea is pretty simple: do what you can to pay attention to an dbalance these three factors and you can set the groundwork for a group to meet in a way that helps it evolve into a community of practice.

 

I would love to hear reports of how this map describes your territory.

 

 

The Art of Hosting training - Belgium2 - March '08

The specific purpose for this gathering in Belgium springs from the very soil of this hospitable country, its communities in troubled relationship and the great diversity of cultures it hosts, both local and international. You will join and learn from a rich mix of people! We sensed from the beginning that people from many different contexts would gather to learn together, and that diversity – and how we are able to deal with it, and learn from it – would be a central theme. As the hosting team we are looking forward to this challenge and learning opportunity.

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

The Art of Hosting training - Belgium2 - March '08

The specific purpose for this gathering in Belgium springs from the very soil of this hospitable country, its communities in troubled relationship and the great diversity of cultures it hosts, both local and international. You will join and learn from a rich mix of people! We sensed from the beginning that people from many different contexts would gather to learn together, and that diversity – and how we are able to deal with it, and learn from it – would be a central theme. As the hosting team we are looking forward to this challenge and learning opportunity.

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Art of Hosting training Belgium2 March '08

These pages are open for use by the participants of the Art of Hosting training, March 15-18, '08 in Belgium.

The Art of Hosting training - Belgium2 - March '08

The specific purpose for this gathering in Belgium springs from the very soil of this hospitable country, its communities in troubled relationship and the great diversity of cultures it hosts, both local and international. You will join and learn from a rich mix of people! We sensed from the beginning that people from many different contexts would gather to learn together, and that diversity – and how we are able to deal with it, and learn from it – would be a central theme. As the hosting team we are looking forward to this challenge and learning opportunity.

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

The Art of Hosting training - Belgium2 - March '08

The specific purpose for this gathering in Belgium springs from the very soil of this hospitable country, its communities in troubled relationship and the great diversity of cultures it hosts, both local and international. You will join and learn from a rich mix of people! We sensed from the beginning that people from many different contexts would gather to learn together, and that diversity – and how we are able to deal with it, and learn from it – would be a central theme. As the hosting team we are looking forward to this challenge and learning opportunity.

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



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Harvest from the open space sessions

Here you can make new child pages where you can share your reflections, learning and experience from open space sessions you hosted or attended at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium in March 2008

Open Space session on Connecting Our Conversations

HOW TO CONNECT AND SCALE UP OUR CONVERSATIONS?

 

This Open Space session was convened by George Pór at the Art of Hosting training in Belgium, March 2008

Participants: George, Mushin, Erik, Louise, Andries, Minke, Toke, Simone

 

KEY INSIGHTS

 

1. Scaling up social innovation goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice (CoP) to systems of influence. (Meg Wheatley and Debbie Freeze)

 

2. A Community of practice is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

3. To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group.

 

4. The strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

 

5. To be successful, a community of practice must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

 


ACTION
George will set up an online space on Evolutionary Nexus to continue this session and take it to the next level by forming a "Connecting Our Conversations" CoP, at the rate of 30 minutes to an hour per week.

Initial CoP members: Andries, Dirk, Erik, George, and Mushin.

 

NOTES

George: The collective intelligence of circles needs to be guided by their collective wisdom. If not, they may birth monsters.

Why do we need to connect our conversations? The global transformation that we're going through is accompanied by much unnecessary, man-made suffering. For example, when millions are dying of hunger, that's not because there's not enough food for all on this planet.

Meg Wheatley co-authored a seminal essay with Debbie Freeze, in which they outlined a path for scaling up social innovation. It goes from loosely connected networks to communities of practice to systems of influence. We are a network of practitioners. Connecting our conversations, we can become a community of practice. Connecting with other communities of practice, we can become a system of influence.

What are the conversations that we, in this circle, are involved with and want to connect with other conversations?

Mushin:
Involved in meta-conversations. Conversations that center around questions like, how do we make the values we care for more transparent to others so people can get involved with them; conversation about creating systems that would make those values more transparent.

Erik:

Involved in effort to connect conversations in Belgium for changing consumer behaviours towards more sustainable behaviours.

Dirk:
Involved in a project that is about better communication between translaters in the EU Commission with 23 departments for the official languages and the institutions that produce the legislation. So for each document you need 23 languages and 3 institutions on each. So try to bring them together and let them realise that they are part of the chain, To not re-invent the wheel.

Frauke:
Conversations at different levels and different places. One of the questions is how do I facilitate self organisation? I would like to apply in different places and organisations what is happening here. Involved in Pioneers of Change - phone calls every Wednesday. Will go to the intergenerational gathering in Greece in September. Conversations also on consumer behaviour. "We are what we do". 15 simple things that you can start doing. Most important conversation at the moment is how to be in the creation process of creating chaordic organisations based on dialogue.

Dieter:
Works in the Hub in Brussels. Involved in the process of creating a hosting team to welcome the people to work in the Hub, who are social entrepreneurs, people with good ideas to change things in society. In the initial phase of this it is important to learn to ask the right questions.

Louise:
Pioneers of change, being in the cultivating team. How to link the local and global level in the network? How to enable self-facilitation and connect all these people and make something happen to have the sparks fly from these connections?
How to create a Hub in Copenhagen? How to connect top-down and bottom-up sustainable development to channel the right resources to right people!

Andries:
How to design and facilitate the creation of sustainable human settlements? More than 50 percent of human population live in urban regions. Many problems out of that: transportation, family life, eco villages, ... many stakeholders and many scales.
How to deliver sustainable cities in the future?

In current professional practice: How to enable the current global network of AISEEC to become a stronger self organising community? How to add scale and learn from the past? There's is a yearly turnover in management - 8000 managers are shifting every year. That can hold back the network from developing. How to enable a new design based on self-organisation to become a smarter global community?

Minke:
Holding meeting with 120 persons next week.
The era governed by knowledge, statistics and spreadsheet is ending... a new knowledge form coming up.
One of the questions is: How can we create space in order to let people step really freely in to experience what needs to be experienced?

George:
My question right now is how can I contribute to make all those conversations successful beyond our wildest dreams? That is really the idea behind Evolutionary Nexus: a now-forming network of communities with transformation projects. The purpose is to increase connectivity in the ecosystem of world-changing initiatives. The way we go about it is by combining social technologies with electronic technologies, and helping the development and interaction of communities of practice (CoP). It is something that you may be able to use in your work.

Members of a CoP learn from and with one another because they want to become better at what they are doing. We are here a potential community of practice of people who are connecting conversations. How do we do that? How can we become better at it, together? What are the good practices and tools that we know of?

Erik:
Why don't NGO's create their own communities of practice? We have different conceptions of change and therefore do things differently.

George:
In a CoP, every participant represents him/herself and not an organisation. Organisations are not capable of being members in CoP's.

Mushin:
There's a list of 120.000 NGO's in the world, see: www.wiserearth.org.
There is a large-scale movement but how do we connect the conversations?

I have lots of knowledge - why don't I change? I change easily if I get acknowledgement from the world around me. What would be needed as a kind of knowledge and feedback systems to us.

George:
Acknowledging comes easily when there's a deep caring about the development of each other. When we care about each other's success in becoming our best, then ourselves become better by it. I know that I cannot be totally free to realise my best unless you all are.

Otto Scharmer is talking about "presencing circles." In a circle like that, we stand for and support the realization of the highest aspirations of each of us. It is so natural; it is a common way of being in healthy families. Why can't we have a society where all institutions are designed to support the blossoming of each individual and their communities?

 

One element of CoP is sustainability. To have not only one-off conversations but to deepen these conversations. A way of continuing the conversation is to uncover our connections and make new ones. A CoP is primarily not about knowledge but about how we care about each other.

To connect and scale up conversations there needs to be a core group and there needs to be something that we can scale up. The CoP exists for the members. If it doesn't provide value for them, then it falls apart or never comes into being. We need to make sure that our members' needs are met.

We could continue this conversation by set up a community in Nexus and start inquiring into the questions. The community thrives on a creating a common learning agenda.

Minke:
I am a member of a CoP that has been in existence for 25 years. All attention and focus is around four core values. We gather together once every month. 25 professionals. What made this community last? Sharing the same values and the same dream. There is a connectedness of the soul and therefore it is strong.

George:
Based on what I hear, it seems that the strength of a community is proportionate to how central its shared domain is to the identity of its members.

Erik (?) What do we need? CoPs don't seem attractive or juicy enough for many people. I am looking somewhere else. Things like Facebook and YouTube have caused a massive change.

George:
We can upgrade the idea of CoP, to communities of co-creation. Not just learn and practice but create together! Similarly, instead "scaling up," we can aim at enabling the conditions for self-organisation at increasing levels. How? Facebook and YouTube are creating new social practices. These kinds of technologies have evolutionary opportunities when we use them smartly.

How many meaningful conversations can I sustain at the same time? For the young people that limit is frequently, while for the older ones it is lower. It is as if they have another nervous system.

Erik:
What is needed to make large scale self-organising of wholesome organisations sustainable? What is the minimal structure needed for self-organising?

Toke:
Becoming more conscious. Not just intellectually but in a wholeness of experience that many here know and trust. I have experienced that when I enter that it is like an osmosis with the universe or with how things work.

What if at every single moment, the osmosis and the opening in me and the we-ness in the universe... at every moment, it self-organises to a higher level? Osmosis understood as the letting go and giving into... that the osmosis is happening all the time as we speak. I am in service of organising an osmosis where what is already happening can take place. Let that begin to take place and be conscious rather than fearful. There is both diversity and oneness.

Andries:
It is about awareness and people awakening. But is there a more systematic, a more integral approach?
What made Google, YouTube and Skype big? Can we learn something from the large organisations that have taken over the playing field in the recent years? How can I create the Google of sustainable settlements?

George:
"Integral" is a good term. It includes the inner dimensions that Toke is talking about with osmosis. It also takes into account the social structures, systems, and technologies. Facebook has thousands of applications created by people, many of which are quite silly or even annoying. But what if we could come up with a Facebook application for collective intelligence? Facebook was not created for that but there is an opportunity to use it for cultivating collective intelligence.

Andries:
Why am I using Google? Because it is extremely convenient. And I choose to be part of communities that give me something with identity. But it must be convenient and easy to bump into again. Must be complementary. Curious of the next Google revolution.

Simone:
The Hub's are creating a space for hubs with self-organising and emerging.

Toke:
For a community of practice to be successful it must support me in creating my livelihood. Not directly making money but to contribute somehow to one's livelihood.

George:
The answers will need to be found in principles and not in technology

Erik:
Benefits - the more people join, the more value
Everyone can participate



Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Articles on Evolutionary Emergence

When practicing irimi

- the art of entering -

I can attack my fear with gentleness

so that my fear does not become my enemy

My friend the enemy wakes me up

My enemy is someone with whom our conventions of human relationship have been broken

 

- learning essences from the aikido Irimi workshop in Open space 3 day aoh in belgium March 2008

Participants and their reasons for coming

Alain Volz - Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

Because I heard many positive things about this event, because it will support my work as synnervator, because I hope te learn new facilitating/hosting techniques and develop my hosting skills more in depth, because some of my friends and colleagues are going as well and I see an opportunity to bring in our business case, MDG5 and Macha, Zambia.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How do you host a complex meshwork in a public private partnership?
How do you host a meshwork from an international perspective with respect for local differences in cultures and values?
What are state of the art hosting techniques from a holistic perspective and how can I develop these more in depth?

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

How to implement this more into CHE-NL and the MDG5 project we are involved in?
How this program fits in a curriculum of a CHE certified synnervator?
How to implement the lessons learned during the course in our work as synnervators?

 

Andries De Vos - Brussels, Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I am passionate about hosting spaces or groups to let co-creation emerge. I believe one and one makes 3 (1+1 = 3), if we meet the pre-condition to find smarter ways of being together and understanding the true meaning of the linking word “and”.
Since I first heard about Art of Hosting, around 2006, I knew I owed it to myself to join it. I am glad I can make time for it now and experience it myself.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

I have not made an exhaustive list of questions, but from top of mind I seek to answer the following:
How to set up an environment or process that is more inclusive to the participants and their unique contribution?
How to be less judgmental when having conversations?
How to suspend my assumptions more successfully to listen more actively for meaning and structure?

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I would like to set up a series of (A.I) interviews and conversations about the future of our organisation and its positive core, during the period of March-April.

In my personal life, I am interested in integrating the practice of hosting meaningful conversations to enrich my relationships and contribution to the society. I would like explore more about exciting methodologies for individual and organisational transformation, with the long-term aim of setting up my own company around community development and change management.

This AoH seminar will no doubt initiate the first in many series of actions towards that goal.

 

Anne-Marie Voorhoeve, Vreeland-The Netherlands

 

Carl Neumann, Heidelberg - Germany

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I’ve been passionate about group dialogue and collective intelligence for quite a while now, and after recently speaking with Judy Wallace I’m very inspired to learn more about your skills in this area.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to establish a group dialogue that incorporates and integrates all aspects of humanity. Most group processes I’m aware of largely address only one aspect (most often the intellect). At AoH I would like to explore ways to include other aspects, such as the heart and the body, and thereby to empower the development of the group and the individual towards more wholeness.

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I’m currently in a period of transition. After being a scientist for 15 years I have decided to end my career in science this summer. I’m exploring a number of different possibilities, and have not decided on a specific direction yet. One of the more concrete projects I’m involved in is aimed at starting a dialogue between scientists, theologians, and philosophers about the role of Beauty in science and religion, and its potential for bridging the two. But this is still a very academic project, and as I mentioned above I would like to move away from a purely intellectual dimension, to work also with the deeper levels of heart and soul, as well as the very practical dimension of physical embodiment of knowledge and wisdom.

 

David Reis, Charlottenlund - Denmark

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

With the increased speed of change taking place now, I am seeing the need for contexts where integrative change can be explored—creative responses to changing social and personal contexts. I see the need to help develop a deeper sense of stability and optimism based on experience. I also would like to become a part of the art of hosting community. I have heard good things about the workshop and the community itself. I have been exposed to many of the formats introduced in the training, however, I suspect that there is more to it than that. So I want to see what the rest is, to hone the skills I do have and add new tools as they emerge.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

None right now.

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I am providing a context of integrative change (we know that there are two types of change: disintegrative and integrative. The media tends to focus on the disintegrative aspect. There is a real need to focus on integrative change.) Part of this would be conversations, workshops, etc. My wife and I have a business called “LivingConsciously” through which we see clients and do workshops. We want to continue to develop our service through this vehicle and to collaborate with others doing similar things.

 

Dennis Kerkhoven, Haaften - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I really like to learn more about AoH

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter

How to host a grounded playground between chaos and order?

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Strategic conversations in healthware, governance, MDG5 Meshworks, Banking sector.

 

Dieter Comos, Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I'm part of the Hub Brussels hosting team and I want to learn how to be a good host in a professional environment.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

I don't have much experience so far in hosting and moderating conversations but I'm eager to learn this skill.

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

My next project will be with the Hub hosting team.

 

Dirk Stockmans, Niederanven - Luxembourg

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I have organised some events together with Helen, Toke and Monica, and I would like to learn to do this myself in my working environment (and perhaps beyond).

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

What is important to keep in mind, and in what ways do I have to grow to do this?

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Improving cooperation within the European Commission and between the European Institutions.

 

Els Still, Perwez - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I am looking for new and exciting ways and technics to get my way through life! How to hande groups and myself of course!

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

Waow, what's the principle? How can I use it in my life and activities? I would love to find new way of having group work meeting.

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Media! And what effect it has on us and why, my space in the world, how could I make a difference??.... what do I like and where am I going, and why?

 

Erik Mathijs, Heverlee - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

To sharpen the bow and to take part and contribute to an emerging community of practitioners.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How can we dance the chaordic path, as individuals both also as a community?

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Conversations aimed at co-creating the "grand narrative" that our times need to make the transition to a sustainable society and ways to spread that narrative.

 

Eugene Boeldak, De Meern - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

In March 2007 I hosted two Conversation Café’s which rekindled the old fire in me to assist others in collaborative thinking and working. Since then I have hosted (facilitated) four sessions (2 World Café, 1 debate, 1 group dialogue). I plan to become a certified facilitator later this year. As a member of the online community of The World café and Art of Hosting I’ve learned (through experiences of others) to see the many diverse uses of the art of hosting and of stimulating constructive dialogues in the present world. I would like to be trained in hosting, so that I can craft better questions and host better conversations, pass on my enthusiasm about the AoH to others through the power of example instead of the power of the word. At present I work as a management consultant in (project) risk and change management. From mid 2007 onwards I started using hosting more in my consulting work.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

1. How to develop questions that touch the hearts and minds?
2. How to use the AoH to bring organizational change about?
3. How to use the AoH to help people really be happy in their working environment?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Conversation on the role of human beings in risk management in a time in which the focus is on technical control (software tools).

 

Filip Monbaliu, Brussels - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

Because I heard speaking about it by Simone, and I sensed that this could be helpful in my job as a (team)coach.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

I have no concrete questions at the moment. I only have a vague image about what I think it is. I think it has to do with the capacity of absorbing tensions and creating energy by presencing in groups and teams.

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I would like to launch a cooperative for allochtone people in the sector of basic medical care. Secondly I will be engaged in difficult strategic and crisis management discussions of a farmers-consumers cooperative.

 

Gabrielle Hubler, Brussels - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I read the invitation that I received through the Hub newsletter, then moved on to reading about the art of hosting on your website: I am really interested about learning more about this theme. It is a really new and fresh perspective for me and I find great excitement (and relief) in knowing it is possible to approach the topic of group interaction and facilitation from a brand new angle, linking the macro and the individual level. I am also really interested in meeting other individuals who do facilitation work and have the ambition to grow and improve their approach and to place “meaning” at the center of their professional and personal development.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

Am very curious about practice and implementation of this approach.
Am very intrigued with the “artistic edge” of the hosting techniques.

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I hope to be part of the hosting team of the Hub Brussels.
I am also going through a quite drastic career shift starting free-lance activities as a writer/ editor…I read your essentials: I definitely need to grow my relationship with chaos (and order as a a matter of fact). Beautiful vision you got there;

Graham Boyd, St.Jans-Molenbeek, Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I have some experience facilitating creative sessions in P&G. Now that I’m branching out on my own I’d like to learn more about creating spaces to enable teams and individuals to be more creative and effective.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to bring this to life on a day to day basis. Learn how it can complement what I already know about leading, enabling and facilitating in both creative R&D work and large scale project delivery.

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I will be hosting conversations about renewable energy, communities of practice, and energy development in Africa.

 

Hajo Dönges, Germany

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

My colleague Kevin Groen, who attend one of your seminars, created my excitement about this methodology. He uses it during some conferences we organized during the last year and so I could see the effects by myself.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

Am I able to ask the right questions?

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

We are going to have an important conference happening in April. I'm planning to use this methodology to host a session to initiate conversations about the future development of our organization.

 

Judith Heezen, Eliksem - Belgium

 

Katrin Dürkoop, Brussels - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

Being part of the Pro Action Café hosting team here in Brussels I would like to learn more about how to host an event and bring out the best in people. I would like to improve my hosting skills by learning about different tools available and how to use them in order to lead a group and produce intelligent conversations and solutions.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to ask good questions, how to get to that core, essence of things, how to bring out the best in people, how to achieve group coherence? How to combine the skills of 'public speaking', 'being myself' , 'being a good leader' and at the same time achieving 'learning' 'solutions', 'wiser intelligence'?

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Our next Pro Action Café event is planned for 20.02.2008 and there will be many more …

 

Koen Bogers, Antwerpen - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

Curiosity, and the awareness that there is a growing need that the bigger picture to be presented within the company and to keep a clear view on things

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to get messages across a diverse group of people. Install decisions and make them part of your every day life

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I would like to introduce this concept into our company world wide

 

Lenneke Aalbers, Nijmegen - The Netherlands

 

Lisa Berg, USA - Brussels, Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I have heard about AoH for a year now. I believe it is an important process and community for me to be part of in order to further my own work in the world.
I want to learn more and contribute what I can at the same time.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How do I find balance between leading and allowing?
How can I become more comfortable with the silence?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I will be hosting large and small gatherings intended to bring leaders in the consciousness and peace – building arenas together. My purpose is to host gatherings and create networks where a stronger synergistic field can be built amongst these professionals.

We can share resources, build relationships and co-create when we get to know each other. I bring people together across disciplines, countries, cultures and projects. There is much richness in transpersonal psychology, sacred activism, indigenous cultures, consciousness and related fields. What would happen if we gather these folks together? How might we collectively contribute positively to the world?

Lieven Calewaert, Eliksem - Belgium

 

Lisette Schuitemaker, Amsterdam - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I feel this is the next step in my development as a spaceholder, to be able to host meetings in a way that the deepest possible contact is made and the highest potential of the gathering is fulfilled for the good of the whole.

 

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

I see that I stop too early – I am practicing and learning to go on, when I think I have said enough, to be more explicit. I am practicing and learning to ask others to go on from what they have said and dig deeper. Also, I’d like to learn more about not to be too polite when asking questions – I guess, that’s my main thing, the politeness (or in Dutch, beleefd zijn waardoor het onbeleefde niet beleefd wordt ….)

 

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Salons (evenings of nurturing the field and information exchange) and retreats (re-connecting in the larger circle with the purpose that informs our next steps) for the Center of Human Emergence. Also I think I can bring this in in my role as Trustee for the Findhorn Foundation where also I sometimes sit silent while I have things to say …

 

Louise Koch, Denmark

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?
Because I for quite a time have known about the art of hosting and now I feel ready to really step in. I joined Pioneers of Change for real in the autumn and participated in the Global Journey in Brazil, which was a very great experience.

I work with user centered innovation and participatory processes and I am looking forward to feeling more confident in my role as a host and being truly familiar with the methods of World Café, OST, AI etc.

I am also very much looking forward to becoming part of the community of hosts.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?
How can I host conversations that let the participants think, talk and act from their deepest place of wisdom, inspiration and holistic thinking?


What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?
The next important conversation for me will be a start up workshop for the participants in a new project about developing methods for user-centered innovation in the public sector. I will be part of the project team myself (and therefore this might not be a good example?)

Then it will be a start up workshop in the same project but with the participants from the public sector - e.g. people from the municipal administration, parents of children in day care institutions, and the children themselves.

Other important workshops/conversations coming up will be start up of an innovation project on tools and methods for laparoscopic operations. This conversation will involve people from the company producing the tools (the sponsors of the project), doctors from different hospitals, experts in the field. During this project I will be hosting interview and development workshops with lead users in the field in order to share knowledge, identify problems and opportunities, and develop new solutions.

 

Maja Rottbøll, Aarhus - Denmark

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I’m about to graduate from the Kaospilots (a creative and in many ways spiritual business school). I’m now investigating how my work can be in service of Life, and work on manifesting it in the form of a consultant company working with meaningful conversations in organizations.
And basically: It just felt like the right time to engage with you guys – with no rational explanation

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

• How can I support that people can meet on a basic human level – and really see each other and the potential we have when we’re together? And what do I have to learn and unlearn (inside and outside myself) in order to be in service of this?

My learning journey in 2008: to deeply feel (experience) that the earth supports me
• Step out of the comfort zone (in regards to work life)
• Challenging inner limitations (in regards to the role as owner of a company and the role as a facilitator)

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Bringing love into the health care system. april-june ‘08
A project for the municipality in Aarhus, supporting them in bringing love and compassion into the healthcare system again through meaningful dialogues and training of their employees to keep them going afterwards.

Life Work Community
An Inquiry of how a Life Work Community of Soulmates could look like. Right now I’m engaging with people around this question in a series of small café conversations

Strong Bright Librarians
Creating a course for the fiery souls of the Main Library in Århus, with the purpose of giving them the opportunity to create meaningful conversations for themselves and the users about the future of the library.

Maria Bloemen, Geel - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

On recommendation and request by a colleague: to provide assistance. In addition, the subject of the training sounds interesting and seems to be very useful and helpful in our working environment.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

) Is my own practice following the principles of "H conversations that matter®"?
2) How can I improve my own practice?
3) How can I then help my colleague?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Team meetings, work group meetings.
Further, I believe that conversations always matter, or should matter.
These learning domains are interesting in all aspects of life.

Marian de Rijk, Bakel - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I am curious to find out whether my work in a circle of singers with group-communication adds something to the process of starting meaningful conversations. As I see it the exercises I developed from the euritmy, provides a fertile ground in which can be planted. Apart from that it is a non verbal communication in which the space between the participants and themselves and the participant and the whole becomes visible. The group as a whole and all the participants together which are responsible for the result of the exercise. I wonder if this has something to do with the meaningful conversation and want to develop my ideas to a next level to work not only with singers but with all kind of groups.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How can I provide an activity which not only will be fun to do which operates on a level below the surface of everyday-life where people experience there relationship to their inner self, the people surrounding them and the purpose they are here for. So they will open their senses to all this and are ready to have a real communication to themselves related to the whole they are in. It should not only be an activity but it should feed their soul, they have to take it into everyday life with them.
How can I develop something where people learn to hold back their judgement but learn to keep an open mind. They even have to hold back on their experience and try to go for the experiment. After that their experience can flow into the experiment.
Where does something like that fit and works for the people who join in?
How can I make my ideas about organizing a project with attention for four fields (fysics and form, to bring life in the form, the people in the form and the vision in the form) make workable. Does something like that exists already?
Are there any people who want to join me or can I join them?
How can I combine the Taketina exercises with the exercises I already have?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I would love to give a training based on the things I spoke of as the nonverbal part of a process where teams want to develop the skill, like in making chamber music, to tuning their antenna on what is really going on so they become aware of what is really going on as they work together in a team every day and what really is needed to work together on the same project so that they can experience their place in the whole and their contribution, in their own way to the final result. First I have to describe what I have done in the last three singing-projects which were fantastic and moved people as well as the singers and have to make a connection between my vision and the thing I did in organizing the project

 

Marie Claire, Frankfurt - Germany

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

Having read the World Café book, I was fascinated by the topic and the whole process and wanted to explore this further.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

To be honest, I don't currently have anything specific in mind, I have ideas and no doubt before the training I may have a clearer picture of my direction.

 

Marjam Vaher, Tallinn - Estonia

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

Learning how to create space for meaningful conversations is strongly connected with my goal in life which is to serve others, I’m passionate about learning all methods helping me to do that better, Art of Hosting is one of the most interesting ones for me.

I believe I’m still a beginner in both helping others to communicate with each other (in teams, groups, organizations) and doing it at all occasions myself. Therefore I come to learn – how to help others and how to be able to open and adapt myself for different kind of people and situations

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to let go of the need of control (the flow where the conversation goes, the responsibility of the outcome etc)?

Why do the meaningful conversations just don’t happen with some people? How can I help them?

Is there a right and a wrong time to practice conversations that matter? Does the situation determine sometimes that there is just no room for that or there is always a way? What kind of methods can I use to reach people even if the “situation is not right”?

How to open up myself without feeling I’m talking too much? Finding the power in myself of inspiring others.

Probably not so directly connected with the initial question, but some things I have in mind directly connected with the weekend: How to prepare myself mentally to get the best out of the weekend? Is there any difference connected with your past experience, background, age etc how much you get out of it?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

With previous MCP of AIESEC Estonia, now working for HIV/AIDS prevention organization – sharing my lessons and planning how to host conversations about HIV/AIDS for Estonian youngsters and companies

With AIESEC Estonia members –what is their personal connection with AIESEC, why this what they are doing is important for them and society

My personal life – my family, son and friends

 

Marjeta Novak, Ljubljana - Slovenia

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I was given the book 'Presence' for Christmas... which further fuelled my interest for group dynamics & enabling spaces for transformation to occur.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

On exploratory level: Which elements create moments of magic in a group?

Ons skills level: How can I improve my (visual) harvesting skills?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I am exploring options to create a local (Slovenian) group/network of people (professionals in their 30's and 40's - but also others) who are committed to social change projects - for collaboration and support.

 

Martine Vanremoortele, Antwerpen - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I want to learn more about Art of Hosting.

Meeting takes place in Belgium - no travel costs

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to use AoH in business environment?

How to use AoH in my communities?

How can I get more experience?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

At this moment I don't know yet, the topic I'm most interested in is CREATION, so all questions will be around "how to be more creative, how can we create together, what blocks people from creating... etc

 

Matthieu Kleinschmager, Brussels - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I was convinced of the effectiveness of the art of hosting techniques by several events hosted by Helen Titchen Beeth and Toke Möller and Monica Nissen.
I am getting increasingly involved in facilitating different kinds of events at the European Commission and I would certainly benefit a lot from developing my skills further in this area. This is a key development area of our 2008 Learning & Development policy at the European Commission (including development of internal trainers, support to communities of practice, setting-up of an art of hosting training course).

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to use art of hosting techniques in my working environment to better prepare meetings which are more involving for participants, more interactive and leading to better decisions?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I will get closely involved in the strategic Learning & Development areas mentioned hereunder: development of internal trainers, support to communities of practice, setting-up of an art of hosting training course.

 

Michel Vandermeulen, Brussels - Belgium

Minke Stadler, Haaften - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I really like to learn more about AoH

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to host a grounded playground between chaos and order?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Strategic conversations in healthcare, governance, MDG5 Meshworks, Banking sector.

 

Mushin Schillling, Berlin - Germany

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

Because my dear friend Helen has been nagging me ;-)
But seriously, I have been experimenting with omnidirectional facilitation for quite some time and to be together with people who have a lot of practice in this method will be enlightening, I hope.
Also I’d like to get to know and contact on a deep level the people who feel called to participate in this seminar.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to facilitate maximum and optimum connections between people to find ways of aligning their efforts to make this world a better place.

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Working, collaborating with quite a few people on many levels at this moment – MDG5, Gaiaspace, collaboration between different tribes of “Integralism” in Berlin, and probably some more by the time we meet at Heerlijkheid…

 

Nancy Bragard, Paris - France

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

As an independent consultant, trainer and coach; I intervene in multinational corporations, addressing the soft skills in a hard environment. I encourage managers and decision makers to step out of the fast lane, the time they’re with me, to address processes, to look at the “how” rather than the “what” in order to improve interaction, motivation, interpersonal skills. It is essential that audiences own this process, I cannot “do” this for them. I sense that the Art of Hosting technology will hand this process over to the audience. In holding the space for them to do their own work, I will be even less of an “actor” in their process.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How can I bring this process into the “hard” environment that I operate in as a value-added piece? My sense is that this is going to appear too “soft”, “touchy-feely”, “Californian”. I believe in it, and I want to be able to trust my ability to convey to them its potential value.

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

My main client is in the throws of huge global issues with the unrolling of global business programs, the stakes are huge, the time frame is very tight. If they forge forward without addressing this in an alternative manner, they’re going to lose good people. I have a very privileged relationship with this client; they trust me. And I sense that if I come to them with a new approach, a technology that gives them the process, they can optimize their potential. But I need to “sell” something “concrete” to them. If I tell them I will hold the space so that they can be present with one another and sense their process, they will show me the door!

 

Nancy Caldwell, Paris - France

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I have been working with different forms of “dialogue” in varied settings, i.e. teaching conflict resolution, researching the role of listening in Truth Commissions, etc. and would like to learn more about this valuable tool.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

I have often witnessed that the depth and meaningfulness of different dialogue processes are poorly reflected in the actual harvesting phase and the “results” look like a pale reflection of the vivid work that was done.

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I would like to continue working with questions of prejudice and racism within a community.

 

Nicole Baussart, Ispra - Italy

 

Nina Bockelmann, Germany

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I heard and saw a lot of the Art of Hosting in the last 2 years and was fascinated by the caring and loving approach and the attentiveness and consciousness in the way of hosting conversatioins and topics. I design and facilitate processes of personal develpment and learning since 2001, mainly working in AIESEC and with a network of facilitators now. I believe in the power of co-creating, creativity, true connections and conversations and want to learn about the Art of Hosting to integrate the work into Conflict Transformation work. I want to be involved in fostering a German network of the Art of Hosting and am part of the calling team for the first AoH in Germany in July 2008.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

-How to create and hold space in which people can truly meet and reconnect to themselves and face and work with their fears, be honest?

-How can I use the methods and the approach in transforming conflicts?

- Can I combine the U-process, the TRANSCEND method and the AoH to integrate large group interventions into peace building work?

- How can I host myself to be able to give all that is needed to hold space?

- How can I support the process with arts, working with creativity?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

-TRANSCEND Summer School 2008 on Conflict Transformation in Germany

- Integrate Art of Hosting in Peace Building Projects (1 month learning journey this summer)

- Use the AoH for seminars on reconnecting to nature and oneself

- IMAGINE Conference 2009

- Host conversations with the Pioneers of Change in Munich

 

Nina Thompson-Williams, Brussels - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

AoH training and awareness – becoming part of that community – is something I've been interested in for some time and this feels like an opportunity not to be missed!

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

• What is it that encourages (or rules out) deeper conversations?
• What conditions (other than developmental level) encourage people to challenge their own assumptions?
• What characteristics of inspirational meetings/situations/conversations can simply be "put in place"?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I'll carry on with the old project of self-development but should be better equipped :-)

 

Nora Ganescu, Brussels - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I work with hosting techniques for several years (especially open space technology, and lately World Café). I plan for several years to come, as I want to become better, to give myself a time and space to reflect on the deeper questions and potential of Hosting, and become member of the Art of Hosting Community

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

• How to hold the presence?
• Inviting into the space…
• Knowing the Community

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I am using these methodologies on an ongoing basis in Community Intelligence and in Pro Action.

 

Pamela van den Berg, Deventer - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

The invitation was brought to my attention by a dear friend, she was very enthusiastic. I experienced some of the methods (open space, word café) in other trainings and experienced that working in a group in this ways generates energy and creativity. It proved to me that groups can organize themselves and, by doing this, people feel responsible for the process and start to work with passion.

This is the way I want to work, to co-create. That’s why I want to learn more about it and experience more of it. That’s why I accepted the invitation.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

In what situation you can use what kind of method? (The very practical question)

I would love to get to know other people who work this way and who can inspire me to continue my own way. (not really a question…)

I am always looking for/trying to find the way I want to go in life. Is the art of hosting something that can help me go my way and will it help me to bring what I can bring? (The more philosophical question…)

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I am a landscape architect and work for a social housing organization. More and more we want to co-create the environment together with the people who live there. The traditional way of participation (“let me tell you what you need”) is not the way I want to work. I’m trying to set up participation in other/new ways. I want to use the art of hosting methods to professionalize this.

In my opinion participation demands a new way of ‘co-creating’ with the people who live in our houses but also a new way of ‘co-creating’ with our professional partners (both building and social sector).

 

Pierre Goirand, Paris - France

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

To meet the art of Hosting community
To meet my friend Ria and her colleagues
To get renewed inspiration and strength

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How can we help groups (and individuals in groups) to look at their own shadow?
Knowing that
1: the shadow is the part that one does not want to look at
2; that so many groups , including non profit organisation as well as loose "generous" initiatives are plagued with issues, that often relate to the opposite of what they openly and passionaltely advocate, or with classics like power, money...

 

How to create a processes and questions that create a sense of possibilities in situations /cultures where there is apparently none and that are dominated by fatalism, manipulation or cynicism.
How can I find occasions to apply my art to issues and situations that are really meaningful and create a difference?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Bilbao world Café Gathering
Next year in France ???
Body in conversation at Sol conference in Oman

 

Rik Verschueren, Ramsel - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

The AoH-community is very inspiring for me. So first of all meeting the people. Second taste the buzz. Third, see whats happening and whats related to my hosting work.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

What do I have to bring and what to leave at home to meet the other, with my own values in his on values; on his domain?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Starting up outdoor-courses father-son on short and long term.

Hosting the Hub community.

 

Rainer von Leoprechting, Brussels - Belgium

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

To connect various networks and commmunities together (e.g. Pro action Europe and Art of Hosting)

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to get this funded by people that are too small in their mental size to really understand the value of this practice?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

What could be a blueprint for hosting conversations about the Future of Europe?

 

Roos Moll, Amsterdam - The Netherlands

Sandra Gevaert, Harmelen - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

To keep the art of hosting in my work alive and catch up with other AoH practitioners.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Host a meeting about the ‘Queen in everywoman’, with women that already acknowledge the ‘Queen in themselves’. We invite them to talk about what they need to truly be and live the Queen they are and what we can do to help other women to become aware of the Queen in themselves and how they can become and live their Queen. (together with Lenneke Aalbers).

Host a number of workshops with police departments about the new vision of the department: to become aware of what is needed, to invite them to share their thoughts and ideas for improvement and what their ideal working situation would be, to find out what they need to become or remain passionate about being a police officer, how they can contribute themselves and how they can work as a team and with partners.

 

Tom Boves, Maastricht - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I am curious as to the program and how it will enrich my life and my business. It all looks very special and authentic.

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to host meetins that produce healing conversations?

How to deepen the impact I have on others in meetings that I host?

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I will be hosting workshops for teachers by April 19 and April 24 in which we will demonstrate the material wroked out for teaching teachers interpersonal communication skills.

 

Vibeke Batting, Boerkop - Denmark

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

I have accepted this invitation because I am urged to do so! I have worked with this kind of processes for many years without knowing what I was doing – more going for the result, because I knew it was working…! I have now said goodbye to my old job and hello to being a free agent aiming at inspiring companies to make use of these processes (and acknowledge the intention behind) – too much control is “out there” and we’ve lost the creativity in our organizations…

I met Toke and Monica in a conference late 2007 (Spiritual Business network) and I just knew that we have a common path... And here we are

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

I have adapted many of the processes and ideas step-by-step and I hope to gain an all-in-one insight, sort of embracing “it all”.

I have myself a balanced focus on process and result. I facilitated my first Open Space process with 20 participants and realised identification of topics, group discussions, inputs from the others, final actions plans, presentations and hand-out of documentation of results – in 3 hours... I believe a balanced view is important in order to apply these processes in business and this focus might give me burning questions at the training…

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

Presently I have only a few activities planned. However, what is of most importance to me is to try to apply these processes at any occasion possible…

 

Virginie van de Loe, Warmond - The Netherlands

Why have you decided to accept this invitation?

My friend Lisette mentioned "the art of hosting" to me and I could feel a lot of excitement. Looking at the site I was worried that it was mostly for prfessionals, but speaking to you on the phone this afternoon, I could feel the excitement coming back. I trust this feeling!

What are your most burning questions about your own practice of Hosting conversations that matter?

How to trust more that what wants to be said by me.

What are the next strategic or important conversations you are planning to host after this training? Or, what's the new project you intend to initiate?

I feel that I will do something in this field, but have not a clear picture et. I would love to create and hold a space, with silence or words, where something new can emerge.


 

Art of Hosting - Hosting the whole

   Ria and Bob’s Conversation Around AoH and Hosting the Whole, Belgium 8-2008
 
   While we were together in Belgium this August for a Warrior of the Heart training at the beautiful King’s Mill, we (Ria and Bob) had a chance to sit down and have a very good conversation around what we thought we had agreed to do when we had stepped forward into “holding the whole” of The Art of Hosting. We went to one of Ria’s favorite natural wooded areas where we walked through the woods and then sat beneath “The Climbing Tree”, as it has been named. Here we sat on a log, talked, and drew diagrams on the ground with sticks. We started out by asking, “Do we need to actually do anything?” We weren’t sure, so we asked, “What is AoH and what is an AoH practitioner?” This inspired us to start to develop a couple of diagrams that might help us define things. We say, “start to” because we want everyone to understand that this is definitely a work-in-progress and we hope it will be added to or redrawn many times over, as long as it helps us all understand what we are talking about.

   The first diagram that inspired us was the one I have temporarily called "The Art of Hosting - the mega field?" (see below).
 

We thought this diagram shows that the most important function (maybe) of this 'thing' we call Art of Hosting is in its being a core, essential, fertile practice and ground for other, more specific and directed activities to sprout from. It reminded us also of the image of the mycelium. It is not visible on the surface, it goes where it is needed to 'compost', and it seems to be connected widely. The different activities and functional forms we now see are: Art of Powerful Places (Learning Centers that use AoH as operating system), Art of Participatory Leadership (AoH for people in leadership positions) and Warrior of the Heart (synergy of Aikido and AoH). All can be seen as sprouting from similar AoH principles and values, use AoH as its primary operating system and can draw on a shared wealth of knowledge and experience of their 'sister/brother' streams. What we also see is the maturing of the whole AoH domain, and the need - in different places - to call into being different Communities of Practice.

   That led us to another diagram [see below] that we originally produced on the ground beside The Climbing Tree, and that is in response to the questions, “What exactly is an AoH Practitioner other than the obvious experience of participating in trainings? And “What could be the “distinguishing marks” and behavior of a practitioner?”
It occurred to Ria, and I agree, that we could take the principals of the four-fold way, along with an addition contributed more recently [thank you very much Chris] and perhaps others to come, as a possible guide. We thought that if this was all the case, then our (Ria, David, Chris, Bob and whoever else shows up) job of 'hosting the whole' could be two fold.
 
Our first responsibility might be to hold a field where the differing offshoots of AoH would interrelate, share wisdom, co-create new possibilities, helping each other stay centered and vital. This is all in recognition that we all share equally in something very important and vital, which is called The Art of Hosting and with our differing abilities, skills, experiences and desire of where and how to work in the world, we could improve our professionalism, cross-fertilize and enhance the whole field.

Our second responsibility then might be to look what this maturing web of practitioners really needs in order to evolve
* The domain (What makes our domain a coherent body of knowledge? Where does it fit in the broader scheme of things?),
* The community (Caring for a domain goes beyond a circle of acquaintances. ... Fully realizing the potential of a domain means seeking out participation from all the relevant players. ... The community needs to accommodate newcomers who may find that joining the community is a daunting undertaking.
* The practice (Building a coherent body of expertise means mapping knowledge in the domain more thoroughly and addressing both the known and the unknown. ... it can set some direction and take a more active role in defining a learning agenda) How to integrate the best of Communities of Practice into the trainings, into the Powerful Places, into the process work of the large-scale systems change?

   As you can see, we have left many places for additions and rearrangements. This is all intended to be just working diagrams, a place to start a good conversation from. We know many of you may have spoken similar ideas and that it seems really quite simple but I think a good harvest diagram always helps kindle more thoughts. It did for us.
 

Thank you,
Ria & Bob

Art of Hosting Stewards: gifts and questions

This message was sent through the Art of Hosting email list, asking the AoH Stewards to respond. 

"Toke, Tim, Sera and Marianne have been meeting around the Art of Hosting Boulder (Nov.'06) and would like to invite you and your questions in. There is an electric feel to this for us about this AoH, with many practitioners from many fields coming together...

Before hosting this holographic gathering we would like to tune into the heart of the Art of Hosting network ...

There is a real and exciting sense of the AoH holding the conversation space, but also being in the middle - so we would like to bring in the network of stewards. Here are our questions - it would be great if you could respond ...

What are the gifts of the Art of hosting in your work?
What are the challenges and questions of the Art of Hosting in your work?

Lots of Love"
Tim, Marianne, Sera and Toke
Oct.30, '06 
 
If you want to start or join a conversation about these (gifts and) challenges and questions, please go here

 

What are the challenges and questions of Art of Hosting in your work

Kathy Jourdain

How to go even deeper

How to have an understanding at all levels of the organization at all times

that this is an operating process

How to help senior organizational leaders release control

 

Chris Corrigan

   Sensing into what is next, into how we ultimately "throw this work in the river" and live through into another interation of the pattern together (not that there is any urgency...but still)

   Wrapping the gift of the AoH approach in languages that communicate and active its deepest essences with anyone.

   The challenge of the finger pointing at the moon.  How does one talk about the practice of hosting that underlies and generates the art of the practitioner without the practice seeming like yet another tool?  ANd so how do we communicate the embodiment of hosting practice?

    Letting go in general, both into the AoH community and then away from it, as I oscillate back and forth.  How to do this without getting hooked.

 

Bob Ziegler

It is easier for me to see how a meeting might be designed than a project managed over the longer term using AoH principles and processes. More than once I have seen the excitement in an AoH room around the emerging vision, only to be followed by inaction, lack of follow-through, or dispersement. I honestly don’t know why this is. Maybe designing high-point events is easier that the day-to-day toil of getting things done. Maybe processes and principles for one or two or five people are not as clear to me (and others) as for large groups. Maybe AoH is still reliant on its stars. Maybe there is more work to do in the area of conflict. Maybe there needs to be an up-front commitment by the clients for longer-term attention, i.e. that hosts need to be more discriminating about the gigs they undertake. Maybe AoH is inherently good at the down side of the U, and more hierarchy and control is needed on the upside?

My questions:

What separates AoH events with long-term outcomes versus those that generate momentary benefit?

How can one use collective wisdom practices within hierarchical situations (and not get run over)?

Phil Cass

The AoH as an organizational culture is an emerging process and requires some level of tending and watering.  However, I do think that there is a treshold that once crossed feels more like watering and tending than pushing a rock up a hill.  We seem to be in this watering, tending and discovering phase.  It is hard to articulate to others who came in and out of our organization.  It is also the case that our Boards have been working with this as well but are still a bit in the pushing the rock up a hill phase.  So learning how to work with these variations of development that are part of the same organization is a challenge.  Also I fundamentally don't like the feeling of pushing the rock up the hill.  The paradox is that the more I personally let go the less I feel like I am pushing and the more things move forward.  However, there is a certain amount of initiating energy that seems to be required to get to that threshold.  So I do have questions about initiating a cultural AoH movement?

 

Brenda Schroeder

The deep question I feel has been under all my life path and that I am now stating explicitly is "How do we find/see the barriers that exist in us that do not allow us to shift to more inspiring, sustainable ways of being? And once we witness these barriers - how can we support each other in removing, knocking down, climbing over those barriers?"

Helen Titchen Beeth

I, too, am intensely curious about how to bring AoH into large, hierarchical organisations. My target is the European Commission - challenged with an immense diversity of cultures as well as some pretty heavy command and control structures, on the one hand and yet stirring and calling for something more flexible, agile and humane... Thankfully we're not alone - the guiding hands of George and Toke have already helped us take the first steps.

 

Susan Szpakowski

Are meditation and the Art of Hosting mirrors of each other, in that they

are each holding open a space of possibility/emergence, one individual and

the other collective? If so, what can the one learn from the other? What

happens if they are introduced as two expressions of the same deep

principles of openness/boundary?

 

If we open a space of emergence, do we have some responsibility to keep

holding it open until others can hold it for themselves (to support what

we have begun, as long as the invitation is there)?

 

Is there a collective journey that is catalyzed/awakened through the AoH

that can be mapped, with guideposts (just as there is for meditation)?


What would it be like to host a province (as in Nova Scotia)?

 

Toke Moeller

What is the minimum that makes hosting the Art of Hosting ?

How do I host myself ?

Whom do the Art of Hosting serve ?

Who do I serve ?

What could the Art of hosting also be ?

When and Where will we meet as a Fellowship ?

what could be good purposes for such Gatherings ?

How simple can it be ?

 

Tim Merry 

- the incredible and sometimes terrifying speed that things (life) want to self-organise - learning to hold onto my hat and also my centre

- letting go again and again and again
- keeping it simple
- always trusting and inviting in - keeping on inviting people, new processes, places ...
- dealing with the amount of work that wants to be done in the world in this way - and trusting it is happening
- calling in a North American AoH crew ... why, when, where? - AoH on AoH ...
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What are the gifts of the Art of Hosting in your work?

Kathy Jourdain

Seeing possibility

Sense of connection

Sense of depth - people go where they have not gone before and there is a

sense they could still go deeper

Energy

New eyes

Perspective

Feeling of threads and that whatever work I do is part of a larger and

global thread

Things come up in the AoH processes that would not have space anywhere else

- sometimes risky things

 

Chris Corrigan

The gifts for me:

   mates and a fellowship in the work

   a generative set of relationships that helps me to see and understand the patterns of work in my world.

   a practice ground of design and facilitation that is animated by love.  AoH is the first truly love-based organization I have been a part of.

 

Bob Ziegler

            As a beginner, the Art of Hosting promises a way for people to ride their collective undertakings, rather than have their collective undertakings ride them. AoH is particularly strong – and transferable – at the large group facilitation level and for gatherings that are at the stage of visioning. They also work well when there is a critical mass of shared language, experience or talent. There is a clarity and confidence about how to achieve collective intentions that I greatly appreciate and admire.

 

Phil Cass

Increasingly AoH is who I am and how I work and also a set of technologies.

The circle as a metaphor for community is becoming an archetype that I find myself carrying around.  The circle, I believe, is literally in our DNA (it is how our optics work), it is how we both operate and prefer to operate when we strip away all of the other stuff.   As such it becomes a barometer for me to measure the emerging health of our organization.  The more the circle is operative the more creative and effective the organization and its capacity to accomplish its purpose and mission.  When we add "principles of cooperation" to the circle (community) it then becomes a healthy and creative culture.  We are becoming a circle not just operating in a circle.  We are just really exploring what are and what it means to have principles of cooperation and exploring how they become real in our organization.  This all really is happening in our organization.

For me personally it is very fulfilling.  I think I have believed for a very long time that if an organization could operate in this way it would be operating from a very high order and could be its most effective at what it is trying to accomplish.  By replicating and being this deep pattern it could not help but be a force for sanity and a humaness in our community and in the world.

Brenda Schroeder

The Art of Hosting has given me space, tools, an approach that puts what matters in the centre in a way that we can talk about what is real and matters with respect, safety, trust... and we can find deep, meaningful steps that are possible to take.  Rather than seeing the barrier more clearly and feeling more overwhelmed and frozen, hosting gives the space and energy that allows us to face the barriers and walk through.

 

Susan Szpakowski

For me the people are the greatest gifts--the hosts I have met, their

quality of presence and loyalty to each other and their work, their

ability to hold stresses and strains and real questions without getting

frozen or stuck, the twinkle in the eye and genuine curiosity. Toke,

Marianne to start with, then Tim, Monica, Isabelle, Phil and others have

all been great gifts in my work.

And then too the people that show up in the hosting space, who soften and

open, each one shining as the gift they are, becoming a gentle reminder to

relax into my work, let my guard down.

Also the return to simplicity, echoes of humanity linking us through time.

The circle, the square, the young and the elder, the sacred space of

commun-ity, a campfire site for global villages. A place where

complexities resolve into simplicity without being dumbed down.

 

Toke Moeller 

To me the gifts of the Art of hosting in my life and my work are many, but in essence  

 

- AoH is a way to connect and experience collectively the vibration of life - and the feeling of love and being in our humanity

- it is a pattern that allows us as collectives to meet in the innocent part of us - an to be in conversation that matters to us now

- it is a practice and a discipline that invites and opens a space for the Nowness and real questions to surface

- it is an entrance to our WEness

- it is a field in which wise actions and good steps that create healing are born...

- it is a practice of peace and joy - an approach to deal with the fragmentation and problems in our world

- it is an operating system that can shift the way we think, behave and work together in new, inspiring and powerful ways that actually work 

- it is a way we can co create solutions that may not otherwise happen

- it is an Art to be enjoyed, explore and challenged - and held by 

- it is a a day to day path

- it is a fellowship of people who I trust deeper

- it offers a different meeting

- it is action and reflection in one

 

- it is a mystery

 

AoH is One 

a gift

and fun

 

Tim Merry

- Not being needed anymore - people just knowing it working it and then flying without me

- the incredible feeling of letting go into trust and seeing the sun rise in organisations, communities, schools,  governments, myself, people

- the fact that it is human and therefore limitless in its potential to do good in the world 
- it creates trust, restores dignity and faith in each other and our species at a time when we need to be believing in our greatness
- people's stories, hopes, fears, pasts and present all form to create the well spring of design - it real that way - it deals in wholeness, not parts of people, places, organisations, spirit ...
- I have fallen in love so many times in Art of Hosting work with the people, or the processes or the places ... it cracks open my heart, connects me to a love that i do not own - that I feel also in others in the trees and stones in all our bones ...
- shit gets done - and it gets done from a place of collective clarity and real meaning - from ground
- radical clarity, deep feeling and rapid self organisation
- HUMOUR (yesterday we did a process on justice in schools with 80 high schoolers and a youth suggested putting the PAL back in principal)
- my friends and mates that I can call at any time - who I know have my back - I always feel held by this network and my friends in it
- the great feeling of being able to have some one elses back - what a gift that is - such an honour!
- the feeling that we are on to something that really works ... that can really help - it gives me hope in a time of rising seas - it is not the dykes that will protect us, it is our capacity to reach individual and collective clarity and take wise action - AoH is the breeding ground for this 
- the constant invitation in ... "find your spot, take a seat, join us - bring yourself, all of yourself, and let's do some good work together"
- the assumption that we are all brilliant and beautiful - so let's  get on with it!

 

 

 

 

 

Stories from the Field of Hosting

A collection of stories where each contribution adds
to the collective wisdom. Please join us as we explore
our evolutionary edges in fields of hosting.

Ashley started this beautiful thread of stories, The Woven Story of the four conveners of the last day of Evolutionary Salon 2 (Jan 2006). You can find it here below.

Another story is: How we Came to Convene 'Moving the Edge' Against All Odds. You can read it on the side-site of ENexus, concerning Moving the Edge.

 

A Woven Story

A Woven Story (can also be read here)

 Preamble Reflection

The dedicated hosting team for the final day of the 2nd Evolutionary Salon, Peggy Holman, Finn Voldtofte, Tree Fitzpatrick, and Ashley Cooper, share a flow of thoughts on how we each experienced that last morning. We each wrote with the intention to tell our individual story and then for them to be merged and woven together, ending up as one story about what happened in the final stages of the salon gathering, in service of the ongoing, communitywide holding of the space for what emerged, and still is emerging.

Peggy: I have been sitting with my story about the last morning, unable to tell it. It has been cooking me since that day. I knew we had done some something quite extraordinary. I even got as far as naming it a shamanic act of creation. Finally, 17 days later, some understanding of what we did and how we did it has taken shape enough that I am compelled to write.

I believe I learned something about the act of invoking the sacred masculine and sacred feminine so that something new could be born. I am also aware of my own newly experienced sense of what it means to be attuned to both matter and energy (spirit). I am aware that much of my own heart song is most alive when creating space for dynamic tensions to show up in their glorious difference and be connected – masculine/feminine, matter/energy, evolution as sacred/evolution as matter of fact.

That last morning was a journey into my own felt sense of these ideas. And it was definitely an act of service to the whole.

Ashley: It is important for me to note that while the details of my memory unfold in relation to my relative field of experience that includes the four of us overtly present as the hosting team, the power of conscious co-creation is embedded in the extended team of space holders, all equally present across time and space in this field of the cosmos birthing itself. A poem of gratitude for the space-holders attempts to articulate this field, but the reality is well beyond my own capacity to wordsmith.

Setting the Stage – Tuesday Evening

Tree: The evening sessions are when those who feel called to participate review the day’s energy and collectively live into what wants to emerge the following day. Each evening, all present are invited to discern within themselves if they feel called to lead the large circles for the following day.

Ashley: Late into the evening of that final night, I feel a need to hear what is unfolding in the debriefing session. They have been together for awhile now. I pull up a chair in the back, happy to be outside the immediate circle, feeling present in my place on the edge.

Finn: Tuesday evening in the farmhouse. Long talks about learnings from the day, the state we are in, and on how to deal with the fact, that there is a lack of money to cover expenses for this gathering.

Peggy: It was clear from the Tuesday evening reflection that we had some ambitious aims for the final morning. The reflection was intense, the expectations were high and we ended the conversation with a challenging and valuable discussion on money – how do we honor a labor of love?

In the spirit of radical trust, rather than everyone present taking part in planning and designing the proces of the final day of the gathering – which we seem to share a sense of urgency around – Peggy asks that those who feels called to be part of tomorrows hosting team say so now – after a few minutes of silence.

In the silence, I hear that it is time for me to be initiated into this world of hosting. It feels like this will be the event when I walk my first circle, inviting experience forward. I am quite terrified by this calling. I know the timing in relation to my own personal development is right. It’s time for me to actively and visibly open space for a large group. I know that I have much to offer in that role. And, I lack trust in my own capacity to take my first steps in a setting as heated, primed, and of such seemingly importance as this final day of the second Evolutionary Salon. I convince myself that the calling I am hearing is for me to open space with a group soon but not necessarily tomorrow. I am glad that Chris Corrigan is not inside my head, laughing at my resistance; if he were, I’d be a part of the hosting team tomorrow.

A few seconds after closing the eyes I notice a feeling that cannot be overlooked – I have to step forward – and an inner voice saying: No, I don’t want to, I don’t have to, let go of it, let others do it, relax and enjoy the day. But I also knew that this reaction was resistance to the intuitive understanding that this would be demanding and would have a larger implication in terms of dedication than I could possibly know at this time. So my mind settles, I let go of resistance, and when the bell sounds after silence there is only the action left: To say loud and clear: I fell called! It sounded unexpectedly solemn, and I noticed that this is more than I can know now, but hang in.

I tend to talk a lot. I need to tell stories and I tend to run on. I am not humble about my storytelling skill. I am good at telling stories to illustrate points and shift the energy of a discussion. But I tend to avoid leading the large circles. In fact, I almost never speak in any large circle. I like to tell my stories in smaller, cozier circles, ones in which I can almost ‘feel’ the warmth of the fire.

I know that the evening sessions are holograms for the collective field so it worked well for me to do ‘my work’ in the smaller circles.

I share this background information because on the final evening as the evening debrief group prepared for the final day, I knew Peggy was going to ask people to be silent and check in and see if they were called to be one of the conveners for the following morning. When she did, there was a voice inside me screaming at me that I had the call to lead the next day. I actually told my inner voice to shut up. Because I deeply believe in the profoundly authentic power we can co-create when we are silent together and trust what comes to us in the silence, I came out of this particular silence and admitted that I felt called.

Even as I admitted I felt called, I was hoping to get out of it. I announced that I felt called to participate in the design meeting but that I probably would not talk. I was vaguely aware that the money piece needed to be covered the following day. I knew, as few in the room could have known, that I had coached the ES2 organizers just a little bit around how to do money differently. In fact, the only reason I ‘confessed’ that I felt called to convene the circles on the final day was because I was determined that the salon not end without someone asking for money.

Unfortunately, as soon as I told the group that I was called to convene with Finn and Peggy, Dana Lynne Anderson said, pointing at me and Finn, “I am getting that it’s you two.”

Gosh, I told myself, there is no escape.

Finn and myself knew we were called.
Tree Fitzpatrick saw herself as having something important to bring in a focused way.

Then Tom Atlee, who had said very little in these meetings, made a brilliant contribution. He beckoned Ashley Cooper, who was sitting in the back, and asked her if she would join the convening team for the final day to represent the younger generation. We are all blessed that Ashley accepted her call.

Tom Atlee asks, “Ashley, are you interested in hosting? I am aware that we haven’t had a representative of the youth yet.” Admitting my attempts to not listen to the call and squirming a bit in humorous discomfort, I embrace this opportunity and thank Tom for listening to what I am trying to ignore (a habit I am practicing to release!).

So the team was given.

Coaching for the team before ending this evening’s reflection meeting was called. Some thoughts were shared, especially on how to deal with ”the money issue”.

The group began to openly talk about the money. I talked a bit about some of the ways I have worked with money in the past. Then Tesa Silvestre spoke beautifully and eloquently about money. I thought, I can put Tesa forward and I won’t have to do this. Tesa was kind and tentatively agreed to step in and do something with money

As people dispersed, the five of us gathered.

A short period of unclarity about roles and participation from another regarding addressing this money issue came up,

It became instantly clear that there were two interpretations to Tesa’s participation: one as part of the hosting group, the other to integrate the money discussion with the rest of morning. This was a personally challenging moment, as I became aware of a clear tension in me: would Tesa be wielding control because she held the key to money? I have no idea if any such intention existed for her at all. I was just instantly aware of what I suspect is a familiar pattern between funders and donors – shaping the work to please the funder. Because I was tired, I virtually blurted that she was welcome to be part of the design and that money would in no way affect how I approached designing. If she found herself uncomfortable and not wanting to be involved that was fine. Coming to the design that best served was my focus and if that meant no money talk, so be it.

My reaction was completely based on my own story, not Tesa’s actions. Yet, it set up a dissonance just as we were starting this challenging task. We had the instinct to move into silence so that we could sense into the purpose of the day. When we came out of the silence, the energy shifted and almost immediately, Tesa left, saying she didn’t need to be there. (When Tesa and I talked at the end of the salon on Wednesday, she told me that it had become clear to her during the silence that she didn’t need to be there. She had no edge around it. I apologized for my communication Tuesday night, saying how tired I was.)

After everyone else had left and it was me, Finn, Peggy, Ashley and Tessa, I watched Tessa get an inner sense that she should not participate in the design discussion. She warmly and politely excused herself, saying she would help if we came to her the next day.

Once again, I had failed to avoid doing the money circle.

It ended up that the four of us stayed in the living room to start talking about tomorrow’s process.

It had been a long day, and a long evening meeting,

As the hour approaches midnight, our attention for detail is blurry. We had all had rich, full days and we were all tired. We sense into the essential elements present, we identified two purposes: identifying next steps and harvesting, we center ourselves around the imperative need for clarity of intention, share loose ideas for structure and decide to sleep on the specifics.

Two or three times we fell into trying to work out details, but finally acknowledged that we were too tired, far too tired to accomplish anything meaningful, and the best thing to do was to go to sleep and trust that we would be able to do what needed to be done the next morning.

Near the end of our meeting, I share a vision that I experienced during our conversation. I see people standing silently with their posted offerings, participants move quietly to the preferred topic, those gathered around a topic find a place to settle and the group gets to work. Embedded in this vision is the opportunity for the whole group to see its process of self-organizing. Everyone can witness as the group disperses into smaller groups and then mobilizes into action.

We agreed to meet at 7:30am to prepare for the 9:00am gathering. I took a big gulp, recognizing how much we’d need to accomplish in the morning. I knew it would take a breakthrough in how we approached the time to actually get through it all in 3 hours. Believing that it was possible to prepare in 1.5 hours was a HUGE leap of faith!

In our departing hug, I am completely empowered by the beam of TRUST that I feel radiating in the space between us. This beam of trust is incredibly solid, palpable, and present. I rest in a sense of knowing that magic and mystery is unfolding.

Impulsively, I offered to bring coffee and bagels the next morning.

Walking back to the main hall, Finn shares with me how unusual and significant it is to him that the night before the last day of such a powerful event, there is still so much unknown as to the specifics of what will unfold. It’s interesting for me to hear this. Being a part of a team of experts that I highly admire, I carry an assumption that this is a normal state for them. Still connected to that radiant beam of trust, I feel excitement in the knowing unfolding being birthed. And as this is my first experience hosting in this form, I chuckle at the rightness for my own process. I work best when asked to be spontaneously present, listening deeply to what is and inviting what could be. I feel well supported by my colleagues and excited to be in my familiar element. The tension between uncertainty and radical trust is actively weaving a resonant field of clarity emerging in intentional space.

I drove home full of resistance. I am not intimidated by public speaking. To some extent, I am most in the flow of life when I am working in front of a circle. But I was being called to do something that would be really big for me, which was to invite the amazing people that comprised ES2 to use the energy of money to build an even deeper collective consciousness. I didn’t want to do it and I did want to do it.

I went to bed hoping that I would awaken the next morning with the clear understanding within myself that I should ask Tesa or, maybe, one of the other people at the conference with money expertise who had offered to help.

Preparing for sleep, I sense into the field, inquiring of my place in tomorrow’s emergence. It seems obvious to me that the logistics of the day’s flow will be handled by Finn and Peggy. Having witnessed the quality of their attention, their capacity to sense into the whole, and the apparent ease and familiarity with which they host groups, I release from structural worries of the following day. I believe my contribution will be to help generate a field in which each participant feels invited and compelled to show up, fully in the power of their authenticity. I have been asked to represent the youth and I take this request to heart, clearing space so that I may hear the fullness of our voice.

Before bed I begin my meditation and reflection with a quote from Juanita Brown:

“I am a powerful and evocative dancer for the world.”

When she shared with me this personal affirmation of her way of being in the world, I was moved to adopt and play with it as it resonates with my own way of being. I reflect, write and set some intentions before going to sleep.
I am powerful and evocative, dancing radiantly and vibrantly for the world.
I am powerful and evocative, dancing vibrantly with the world.
I am powerful and evocative, falling in love with the world.
I am a voice for the youth. My vessel is open to receive the message of the youth.
I have the capacity to hear, trust, and offer forward this wisdom.
May my fears and self-doubt be cleansed from this experience.
May I be open, honest, and humble as I have the compassion to touch Other’s reality.
I am listening to the collective voice.
I am enough.
I am showing up to answer the call.
As I went to sleep, I planted the intention that I wake with answers to the design conundrums we faced.

Wednesday Morning

I had a great night’s sleep. It was a wonderful reminder of the power of processing overnight.

A short night, with many halfwake thoughts, and 5 am the impulse to sit up in the bed, take a few notes, then let it go and do my morning meditation practice. A clear statement of what we – the salon gathering – had accomplished now came almost in one shot. But nothing about the flow of the day, which had occupied my mind during most of the night. Okay – leave it, somebody else will add in on that.

When I woke (early) the next morning, I had a basic flow in mind. I also had an idea on how to approach the harvesting.

I awoke at 5 a.m. channeling what I was going to say in the money circle. Still, I tried to shake off the call. I pulled out my laptop and wrote for about fifteen minutes. Then my hostess woke up and came out to greet me. I rushed out of the house as quickly as I could because I now fully understood that I was doing the money circle and I could not talk.

After a night of sleep, I awaken and move into meditation, feeling insight pouring through in the morning’s freshness. I write:
• A call to action to engage the collective presence.• {Precision, clarity, awareness of self and other, connection to Source}
• Hold a suspended moment that you don’t know what that next step is. If you know what your next step is – perhaps still hold it for a moment, allowing yourself to rest deeper into the collective next steps. (visa versa)
• (We) trust that we have the capacity to hear the call. I invite each of us and all of us to show up and hear the call.
• Harvest the essence of what has spoken to you, what has resonated with you, the connections, commitments…
• The e s s e n c e
• Harvest the essence of what has been offered to us. What we as the antennas of Evolution, catalyzing collective intelligence and social creativity, what is the essence of what we have heard?
I went to the bagel store and sat outside until it opened at seven. I was churning deeply with how wonderful the money talk was going to be. I was in and out of my clarity: it would be good, I would fail, it would be big, I would fail. But now I knew I had to do it, no matter what. I had no more thoughts of asking Tesa or Charles Terry. I was called.

I went to the kitchen to write the flow and found Michael Dowd. He gave me a wonderful gift of a hot breakfast. As we talked, a few others arrived, including Nancy White, who asked if she could help in any way. I’m not sure what prompted the thought, but I asked if she’d be willing to help get the room cleaned up and ready. She gladly agreed.

Walking from Aldemarsh to the institute in the early morning twilight. A different route than so far used seemed to find it self for me. It was a sacred walk. Approaching our meeting place from another direction I thought: People have been walking like this for thousands of years – some coming early, before the rest, to serve the community with some kind of preparing the space. I was not walking. It was that specific role of being of service for the community that was walking.

We all met at 7:30. My coffee gift was already cold. Finn told me that it did not matter that the coffee was cold. He said he had walked to the Whidbey Institute from Aldermash and it was dark and cold. As he walked, he looked forward to the coffee I had promised him. He said the coffee had warmed him up on his walk as he anticipated it so the coffee, too, had done its job. This is a small detail but I like the small detail: it shows me how highly refined the collective field that we built together is. I never offer to buy people coffee because I am poor but I did it and my impulse warmed Finn as he prepared to come to our early morning meeting.

I walked from Granny’s to the Great Hall. It was a walking meditation that prepared me for the design work. When I arrived, we discovered that unbeknownst to each other, we had each reached the hall from a sacred walk (or drive) through the woods. We had breakfast, thanks to Tree. (Yes, I had breakfast twice and gladly gobbled them both.)

We Show Up

Each one of us arrives aligned, present, open, available, receptive, centered, and ready to play! Precision, clarity, and invitation are the driving forces. Essence is our guide. We each make offerings to the whole and together hold space for deepening listening into the collective field, giving voice to form emerging, and finding our places as hosts, guides, messengers, and companions.

Tree is holding a space for walking powerfully into the topics we’re afraid to address – and doing so with radical trust. She leads by example, focusing awareness of self-care (for us as individuals and collectives) and financial integrity.

Finn tracks the pulse of the whole, inviting breath, inviting space, inviting silence, inviting awareness. He arrives with an invocation and affirmation guiding us forward into our next steps, keeping us aligned with that which is most essential.

Peggy consciously embodies the container, collecting the loose edges and weaving them seamlessly into the expanding whole. She brings to light the structure and form, focuses purpose, and continually elicits pieces to be integrated.

(At this moment, self consciousness and subjectivity block my capacity to single in on key elements that I contribute… my sense is that) I focus attention on essence and authenticity, resonantly holding space for us to engage with Presence.

Fragmenting these pieces and parts into individual ownership is also only part of the picture as each of us contributes to all of the areas and there are many unmentioned individual offerings. Additionally, and most importantly, none of us are acting from a solely personal place; we are simply the vessels through which the collective speaks.

The planning meeting we had was sacred space. The four of us, who do not know each other as a team, seemed to be working in an almost silent unison.

We tended to our little circle with care, quick attention. We had earth, air, fire and water in the circle with us. As each person spoke about their vision for the day, it almost felt, to me, like they were speaking from inside me. Everything everyone contributed as we set our intention for the day’s circles seemed to have grown inside all of us.

The four of us met, sat down in a circle, with coffee and bagels, and started with silence. There was a lively presence in the middle right from the first moments we sat down. During the silence the words came: ”This is an honour - to be sitting here”, and I heard my self give voice to them, and continued with hearing my self calling in trust and support. Peggy continued, addressing the middle: You are seen, You are loved.

It made complete sense – and it was big to be with.

Peggy came in from her chilly morning aflame laser like clarity about what we would do. She said that as usual, she had the exact conversation she needed to have as she walked from Grannie’s to the hall. I could almost see the whole day, lit in Peggy’s eyes.

We then sat again in silence. Out of the silence, the intention got more clearly shaped:
• To mindfully and collectively engage our first next steps
• To make visible to ourselves and the whole the essential learnings that we value
• To call our commitments into being
Qualitatively, we knew to accomplish our three purposes that we had to engage people in being there with precision and clarity, a laser-like focus. I knew it was going to require a mindfulness from me that I’m not sure I’d ever achieved. I remember making a commitment to myself to stay present in every moment to what was happening. What audacity, I remember thinking, to believe it was possible to stay that tuned in for 3 hours!


For the next hour details on the process and its facilitation grew forth before us, with ease and in a playful manner. We were all used to process design and facilitation, and we knew that what we were doing now was something we haven’t experienced before. Some details were agreed, mostly on timing – and later it showed to be quite accurate.

We hold the forms of organizing that are known to us in our field of awareness and sink deeper into the evolutionary edge and the call from the collective. Unattached to any specific form, we allow these known forms to evolve into new incarnations.

As I shared the basic flow that had come to me, Finn, Ashley, Tree and I filled in the specifics with a remarkable fluidity, each building on the other’s ideas. The final design had all four of us integrated into it. It was one of the most easeful and creative designs I’ve ever done.

The basic shape we created:
Create a worthy space
9:15 • State the purpose (Peggy)
• Handle announcements (Peggy)
• Give the gift of appreciation to Terri and the kitchen staff (Peggy)
9:35 • Eurphoric Bullshit (composed & sung by Viral Dynamics)
9:40 • Silence – centering in ourselves and sensing from the middle (Finn)
9:45 • A short marketplace on first next steps (Finn)
10:50 • A moving reflection, standing and weaving meaning (Peggy)
11:15 • Calling into being that which can now be named (Ashley)
11:30 • Money meditation (Tree)
11:45 • A last word/phrase of closure (Peggy)
12:00 • Ojibway thank you song (Chris)
I was almost silent when we designed the rest of the piece. I had a lot of inner work to do to keep clearing the space within myself for the money circle. When Finn, Peggy and Ashley did each of their leadership work on the final day of ES2, I was not really listening. I was holding that money circle.

It was wonderful to be holding the money circle. I felt fully integrated into the deep, collective consciousness we had all co-created but I also felt that to serve this whole I needed to hold myself apart.

So I didn’t add much to the design talk. . . and yet, I really felt like I was contributing just as much as the others.

My favorite parts of our design meeting: when we realized that we would do the piece where people could call the last session of the gathering in silence, well, something like a wave of warmth seemed to dance throughout the room. Yes! This was what we should do.

My other favorite part was when Peggy came up with the Standing Reflection. Yes!

And, of course, the other two wizards, Finn and Ashley were saying many, many wonderful things. We were all brilliant.

As we were nearing the end of the design work, Nancy White arrived to get the space set as I’d requested. Ashley, who had named the need to not only clean up the space but make it sacred, spoke to Nancy about what she had in mind. I don’t know what they said; I do know that the result taught me what it means to create worthy (or as Juanita says, hospitable) space.

We knew the VD’s would be performing and we said that we would not set up the room. We would let the whole create the space. And then we said, Let’s ask Nancy White to greet people at the door. She’s the one to ask. And then Nancy walked into the room, the first person to enter our intimate circle.

Everything was in alignment between the four of us and the whole collective. I knew for sure when the lead singer for the VD’s arrived on cue.

Finn, Ashley, Tree and I completed our work a few minutes before 9:00am. We left the hall to prepare, each in our own way. As we parted company, Finn expressed his sense that he had never done something with this much not knowing. I agreed the same was true for me.

Creating Worthy Space – The Opening

When I re-entered the space, two coyote spirits welcomed me, as they did each person. Kenoli and Nancy were amazing! They were funny, light and sacred, instantly transporting me into the kind of space ripe for something wonderful to happen.

Once everyone was in the room, I stood to set the context. I was centered enough to follow the impulse that arose in me as I stood: I walked, actually more like a walking dance, silently around the circle, making eye contact with each person in the circle. I’ve never done that before. It was powerful!

When I finished, the circle was silent, curious, expectant. I spoke of the ambition of the agenda; that it would take mindfulness and focus from all of us. Then I spoke our three intentions with as much clarity and focus as I could muster. In retrospect, I was performing the work of the sacred masculine, invoking in the lush space we had entered, the direction for our work. George Por called out for me to repeat the intentions. I said them again, slowly. Suddenly around the circle, people were holding out their hands thumbs up. The context was set.

We handled the business of announcements crisply and quickly. We brought in the kitchen staff for a rousing round of applause and thanks. I called Terri to me and took the silver bell, called Heart to the Nines, that I had worn to soak in the spirit of the conference on her behalf and put it around her neck. She then took it off to pass around the circle so that everyone could add their energy to it.

It was time for a little music. I know that when I’m focused, I can be really serious. I also know that the most sacred spaces are filled with loving laughter. It was why I was so delighted that we had the gift of Euphoric Bullshit to offer. As I prepared to introduce them, I realized to my delight that the atmosphere, that I’d be instrumental in creating, was already filled with sacred laughter! It was a really special moment for me; I didn’t know I could do that.

Euphoric Bullshit, created and sung by Viral Dynamics (also known as VD) was a smash! Nancy White, Chris Corrigan, and Kenoli Oleari were amazing. People were roaring with laughter. And still, the space remained sacred.

Opening the Marketplace

When they finished, Finn took us into our first collective task. His words:
We have co-created, supported and witnessed
emergence of capacity for engaging
collective intelligence,
social creativity
and community.

At this last day of this part of our common journey
we expect from ourselves and each other
to show up fully in all our capacities,
and trust that
collectively, and on the level of organizing ourselves,
we do know
what conversations we shall have
to sustain our community in action.
He invited us into silence, to center into ourselves and sense into the middle. He invited anyone who felt called to step forward and in silence, write a topic for action. It was a beautiful dance! The idea of opening the marketplace in silence was a breakthrough idea from our design work. It was fabulous! The session conveners walked around the circle showing their session topics to everyone. Groups formed to do their work. I heard from many afterwards that these sessions retained the mindful, focused energy of the whole.

Toward the end of this time (about 45 minutes), Tom Atlee asked me if there would be a chance to report on the session outcomes. It wasn’t in our plan and I could instantly feel the energy block, the resistance in me to taking time for this. Still, I listened to the voice from my center that said this was important. It was another sign to me of how much in the flow I was, that with a tightly packed agenda, there was room for what mattered.

I spoke with Finn and when people returned (quickly) from the sessions, he invited someone from each group to share the essence of their session. I was inspired to hear what was planned!

A Moving Reflection

Having addressed our first intention, of engaging with our first next steps, it was time to make the learnings of the last few days visible. We used movement for this process, drawing on kinesthetic learning. We called it a “moving reflection”, standing and weaving together our learnings. The instruction was to reflect on two questions:
• What was the essence of the value you were taking from our time together?
• What commitment(s) do you wish to make?
I hold a belief that I’m terrible at giving directions. This reflection involved multiple steps that needed to be explained up front. I was really focused on making it clear. We would take five minutes to reflect on these two questions, followed by three five minute rounds of standing and weaving. As we learned from the world café, patterns surface through weaving reflections together. The invitation was to talk to others, in twos, threes, fours. I would ring the bell every five minutes, not to tell them to move, though that was an option. Instead, the bell was to remind people to return to their own center. My request was to go to silence immediately, even mid-sentence. Just as life intrudes, so would this call to self. After a minute, the bell would sound again and they were welcome to continue or move on. Somewhere in this explanation, Alan Briskin, asked me to repeat it. As I was doing so, he said, “oh, you mean you want us to act like adults.” Everyone roared! I was thrilled. I had fallen into seriousness and Alan’s comment was a great wake up call back to sacred humor for me. I thanked him for the reminder.

Then it began. People spent time in silence and when the bell rang again, got up to share their reflections with others. I was thrilled that when I rang the bell again, people instantly entered into silence. The time went quickly as we shared our learnings and commitments. It is the one place in which I wish we had more time. (That said, feedback on the day was that at no point did anyone feel rushed. In spite of all that we did, the time stayed spacious.)

At the last bell, people returned to their seats.

I participate in an activity in which we reflect on our own essential learnings and commitments. In the state that I am in, my reflections and commitments arise from a core place in my being. I am deeply moved by the process of weaving through the room, connecting with a few people, sharing and witnessing with one another. The rhythm of sharing, witnessing, and being with the bells and silence creates a ritual feel to the field. I experience my intentions and commitments coated with the loving embrace and support of those witnessing my offerings during this time. It creates for me fertile soil for grounding and integration.

Calling Into Being

Ashley stood and much to my amazement, I watched as she took a ritual walk, a dancing walk, around the circle looking each person in the eye, just as I had done to open.

Days before I watched with awe and admiration as Candi Foon walked the circle, knowing that she was teaching me a valuable lesson about the embodied form of opening space. My eyes could not be peeled from watching her feet. Slowly, consciously, with precision, clarity, and perfect presence each cell in each foot seemed to effortlessly and ever so delicately fold into the earth. Each time her foot made contact with the ground, I felt that sacred union.

It is with that reverence that I walk the circle. As I begin to walk the circle my eyes rest upon the beautiful beings before me and a surge of celebration erupts as I awake to this opportunity to look genuinely into each person’s eyes. As I type this, a well of gratitude sweeps over me for that gift, for the opportunity to connect intimately with each individual in that way and to feel the flowing current that passed between each of us, circling as the whole. In the process of connecting with each person (in the outer circle) I carry fully in my body the complete knowing that as a group, we are showing up… we have arrived and we are capable of listening to the call. We are now ready to give voice to that which we have not yet been able to name.

And so I declare:

“It is now time to call into Being that which we are fully capable of naming.”

As the words pass through my lips, my body solidifies into a fierce stature, commanding that the chatter of the mind, doubts and uncertainties disappear from this sacred space, allowing us to open to the reality that it is now time to call into Being that which we are fully capable of naming. And as I sit back down, my heart pounding, I continue to hold the space of radical trust, knowing that we have arrived to hear the call.

And she sat down. I was awestruck! Even now, I feel goose bumps from the power of her work. There was silence for quite a while. At last, a voice, Chris Corrigan, spoke:

“Bodhisangha.”

I noticed from my deep emotional reaction, that this is what I came here for – this is the longing that drives me.

I was riveted. I thought, “yes!” That is what we are birthing. It is what we are being in this moment. We are enlightened community. Other namings happened, some remarkable words from Chaiwat and Carlos, among others. Still, what stays with me most is this nascent presence, bodhisangha.

In retrospect, I realize how fitting that the young woman of our team is the sacred feminine inviting the birth of this new presence.

Money

As we returned to a natural silence, Tree stood to talk about money. While her words were wise, humorous and clear, what I most recall is the calm presence she maintained while guiding us into the heart of the material – money. By the end of the meditation, I believe she had succeeded in carrying us past our stuck places around money to truly being able to sense into money as energy and what made sense in this moment for each of us. I was thrilled for her and thrilled for us.

I have gotten many compliments and kudos for my money talk and I am deeply grateful for each and every one but what I did was completely extraordinary for me. I had never done anything like that before. Oh, I’ve asked people for money but I never stood up in front of ninety powerfully adept human beings and been my whole self out loud without editing anything out. Afterwards, I got bits of feedback like “when you said that, it didn’t work for me”. Well, I can’t do much with that kind of feedback because I don’t remember what I said and if I should ever find myself doing something like this again, I will not be able to integrate such feedback because again I will have to let it emerge right out of me, unedited.

I was able to do the money circle the way I did because I was deeply knitted into the work of holding the collective field. Attending all the evening debriefs was essential. Another essential element was that we had all done some a fantastic job of building the collective field. It was not exactly me doing the money talk. It was the field. I talked to the middle. I felt held as safely and lovingly as I have ever, ever felt.

I noticed towards the end that some quiet chatter was beginning. I asked Tree about it and she said she was done. I instantly got that she had let go of the field and that it was my turn to hold it as we moved towards our closing.

Youth and Elders


Anne Dosher tells Finn that she feels called to share a blessing of her ceremonial rituals with the group, expanding awareness of the greater space that is being held for us. Anne wished to thank and release the spirits that had supported our work. I feel called to connect the youth with the wisdom of tradition. I am honored to invite Anne, a revered elder of this community, into the circle. For me, holding hands with her as youth and elder is a symbolic expression of the full circle of wisdom’s journey. The power of the space comes alive in the medicine wheel ceremony of gratitude, deepening our connection to the unfolding field of life. My being pulses vibrantly with gratitude, grace, love, awe and wonder and I marvel at the journey into which we are walking.

Closing the Gathering

I spoke what was left to be done – a last word, a prayer of closing from Anne Dosher and an Ojibway thank you song from Chris. I heard Charles Terry say that Rick Ingrasi had also offered a song. As I invited people into silence one last time to think of a word or phrase they wished to speak to be complete, I was asking myself how best to handle the choice around the multiple songs that had presented themselves to be sung.

People began to speak their completions simply following around the circle. At some point it started hopping around, and then I started to hear the same voices. My internal sensing was noticing how clarity gets lost as the form shifted from the easy flow around the circle to the random hops. I observed and breathed into it. When repeated voices started speaking, I found myself intervening, asking for anyone who hadn’t yet spoken and wished to do so to speak now. A few new voices spoke. When it felt done, Ashley introduced Anne. Anne spoke a powerful releasing in each direction.

At that point, I offered it to the wisdom of the space to decide what songs needed to be heard. In the silence that ensued, I think John Abbe put on a recording of Imagine with George Bush’s voice. It filled the room with its power. Rick led us in a four part harmony of “We are the ones we’ve been waiting for”. Laughter and fun abounded from that.

Finally, people returned to their seats and Chris, with his crystal clear voice, sang us a thank you song, with people joining in by the end.

At about 12:45, we were complete. People said their good byes.

We had done it.

Post Conference Reflections: What had we done?

In my memory of that day, I feel in my body a deep precision, a rhythmic cadence of breath. Time didn’t seem to move fast or slow, it just was. The space felt very intentional. I felt extremely alert and awake. The space around me seemed to echo this precision. The field seemed to have a harmonious hum. I am intrigued and curious about my experience of the whole and the field, wondering how much of it is a projection of my own personal experience and how much is truly a sensing of the whole. From my perspective, we invited and shaped a quality of presence -- A shape shifting from reaching and grasping to embodying and being. Time was cradled in intentional space. Movement and action seemed embedded in attentive awareness, surrendering to deep meaning.

I am still cooking from this work. I believe the experience of staying present to myself, centered in matter and energy for three hours has changed me. I have added a new element (literally) to my morning affirmations. At the last winter gathering of Spirited Work, the warrior name of Standing Still in the Fire came to me. I realize now that standing still in the fire requires the capacity to notice and name what is happening in the moment. Two guide posts for this are clear to me:

• Being centered
• Welcoming disturbance

I think there is something else that enabled me to sustain the state I was in throughout the last day. It has something to do to with being present to matter AND energy (spirit). I think it involves setting context in a way that makes the invisible visible. And it has something to do with the union of the sacred feminine (creating a fertile space) and the sacred masculine (invoking clear intention).

I believe invocation is an act of the sacred masculine. Throughout the conference, people had called for clarity of intention. For whatever reason, every attempt to name our purpose came out diffused. On this last day, I, a woman, brought the sacred masculine clearly into the space. It got me thinking. Did clear intention keep going sideways at the salon have something to do with the masculine finding its right use of power? I think feedback given to both Tom Atlee and Michael Dowd about owning their expertise is an aspect of this. Power has been so abused in our culture that perhaps men knowing how to show up powerfully and appropriately is a skill to be learned. I think because I'm a woman, I don't have the same fears that my use of power will abuse.

I can also see that creating a welcoming space, is the sacred feminine preparing for her work. Perhaps for the first time, I viscerally understood what Juanita means by creating hospitable space as I felt welcomed by Kenoli and Nancy. We were ripe for the invocation to seed something new.

When we were designing, harvesting never felt like the right term. When we landing on “calling into being that which can now be named”, we knew it was right. I don’t think I understood it as a shamanic act of creation until later.

We birthed bodhisangha on Wednesday morning..

The idea isn’t new; we’ve talked about before. What IS new for most us of was a felt sense of enlightened community. I think the mindful way we were together provided a powerful sense of what it is to be a bodhisangha.

In naming it, Chris called forth what was true in the moment, bringing bodhisangha into being both materially and energetically. We birthed something new.

I am still processing my experience of matter and energy. (I see energy and spirit as different names for the same phenomenon.) More than ever, I was attuned to both on Wednesday morning. I could feel the clarity of my words as I spoke them. I could sense the flow of energy through me as I interacted with the group. Everything I did was guided by my intuitive grasp of the energetics. For example, it was clear that we needed to share the outcomes of the breakout sessions, even though rationally, there wasn’t time. Energetically, there was all the time we needed.

Over the years, I have come to deeply trust my intuitive sense of what is called for in the moment. I have huge faith that I am held in a larger, loving whole and that when I act, it is not in isolation but from a felt sense of the stream of which I am a part. Something new surfaced for me on Wednesday. I was able to be present to the visible world of content – words, silence, movement and music, of action and reaction. At the same time, I was in and of the invisible energetic field that I helped to open and hold. I have no language yet for this experience. I just know that I am different. And that whatever is calling me is in service to the whole.

The story continues….

The process of the whole salon that morning was light, serious, sharp... and the energy in the room became more and more intense. In summary, the process was to call into being that which can now be named.

It took a couple of days for me to understand, that this calling into being didn’t stop as the salon came to and end. At an afternoon reflection on the mornings closing session our willingness and understanding of how to be with our differences had importance. I left the meeting for hometravel, with careful eye contact to the three other hosting-team members, knowing that we were not done yet.

The moon accompanied me home to Europe, being right outside my airplane window for the major part of the 10 hours eastbound flight. Once again, I was not looking at the moon – human beings have for hundreds of thousands of years been looking at the moon, wondering. I felt carried home by the caring quality of feminine.

Coming home and exchanging some emails with the team, I noticed a feeling in my chest like being in love. But this was not personal, it was not directed towards anyone in the team, but it had to do with the team. At that point I had the thought: We are still hosting. What came into being that Wednesday morning still needs to be held – and we are the ones that can be mindful about it and act upon it, until others will take over or take part.

And that is still how it is – I think.

This is how I came to express it in a phone meeting of the team one week later:

”What I think I saw Wednesday morning was the birth of a new expression of life, an expression that has been wanting to come into existence for a long time. Now, finally, we are the lucky ones that we get to see this. A new form of life coming into existence, dependent on us. It cannot sustain itself yet. Maybe it will be able to later but as of now it is dependent on us, us being the people who care. I am reminded of The Tibetan prayer wheels, and the importance of keeping the wheels turning. It is not a burden and it is so important. It is even difficult to say this, because there are so many ways it could be misunderstood.”

We share this story, even if it may sound very solemn, in service of upholding and continuing what was given birth to that morning. This was my perspective of the story. What is yours?

"Living Circle" in Switserland

Hans Jencklin is a friend I first met in Wurzburg in April this year. He sent me recently a personal report on the Living Circle workshop he facilitated with a friend early summer. He writes "here is my still limited version". Limited or not, I find it more than worthwhile posting it here.
 

·         The purpose of the LC-workshop, that was facilitated by Annette Kaiser and myself, was to better understand as how we can bring impulses and inspirations from trans-personal intelligence - universal (unconditional) love and  wisdom  OR  pure consciousness  OR our true Being - into thinking, feeling and action through individuals and - especially - groups.

·         There were 27 participants who all have been on one or another inner path for several years

·         We started by attuning ourselves to universal love and wisdom - first individually and then as a group - by using the following technique:

o        Going into silence, individually

o        Connecting first to the centre of the earth (through the coccyx) in order to be deeply rooted and then to universal love and wisdom through the top of the head into eternity/infinity. We did this by short thought impulses and longer phases of letting the thought pattern unfold.

o        Being aware of our own heart as psychic instruments of universal love and wisdom within each of us

o        Connecting all hearts of the circle with each other. Thereby creating a web or a field of universal love and consciousness within our group, perceiving each person as a unique manifestation of pure consciousness with its individual gifts and potentials.

·         We explained our understanding, that a circle, in order to manifest in co-creative activity, would need

o        a centre in the form of a common purpose/meaning (in our case: learning and better understanding how we can bring inspirations from our true being into manifestations)

o        an attitude of surrender to pure consciousness

o        a shared commitment to participate in the common purpose.

·         We then assumed that if these givens are there, inspiration would pop up from the field in unpredictable ways; as a prerequisite for this to happen, we asked the participants to drop all expectations as these would limit our perception.

·         We then entered the process by alternating phases of inner listening and sharing in the circle.

·         It soon became clear that not all participants felt that they were able to access or discern the field of universal love and wisdom. We then departed in 4 groups in order to share and exchange experiences of universal love and wisdom in order to bring the results back to the full circle. This sharing touched deeply. It felt as if the circle as a whole was already in touch with the field of universal love and wisdom, however we could also still feel an amount of resistance.

·         In the afternoon we started with a sharing of the few projects that had survived from last years' Living Circle, especially some "Deep Community Groups", as initiated by George Weissmann. George also took the opportunity to lead the circle into an experience of what he calls DC. I personally felt a drop of frequency from pure consciousness to a more emotional quality; some participants liked the experience of being contained within the circle, whereas others did not.

·         Later, we realized that a small number of participants complained that there had been no “real learning” in terms of hard facts. In the following session this feeling of lack and even anger manifested ever more intensely. Annette and I - as well as some other participants - accepted this as a healthy crisis and just held the space with an open heart resting in universal love.

·         At one point, we were asked by the participants not to lead anymore and to allow the wisdom of the group to guide the process - which we gladly accepted as being in tune with our intent.

·         The field of love and wisdom became ever stronger and at one point the question was raised whether any impulses for concrete actions or even plans could arise from the field

·         The group decided to go into inner listening and that everyone would put his own impulse in the centre - similar to open space. The evaluation of these impulses by the circle resulted in four groups that felt attracted to go into an exchange on these particular themes:

      • A TV-station "Good News TV"
      • A scientific research group on collective intelligence
      • A book project on wellness techniques
      • An evaluation/appreciation of what was going on in our circle

·         After a working period for each group – the participants had been asked to be aware when and how they would loose their connection to universal love and wisdom as the source of their actions - it turned out that about half of the participants still felt attracted by the Good News TV-Project and still wanted to go on with it after the workshop. Two participants decided to go on with the scientific research group and later would invite others to join into individual research projects. Four women decided to work on the book project with the aim to have it published.

·         The final phase was about structuring the group in a way that connections and even tasks where made clear, so that the work could continue after the workshop. As the given time was not too long anymore, we first had the impulse of leading again, by asking clear questions in a structured order. When we refrained from this, we realised that this circle, having gone through this process, would find its own way, which might at first look unstructured, but would lead to a perfect result.

·         At one point of the process - I do not recall on which evening - we watched the film "What the Bleep do we know" which contained many hints to the process we were going through.

·         During the final sharing it became clear - to our great and happy surprise - that each and every participant had not only been deeply touched by the trans-personal field of pure consciousness, but got a glimpse as to how, through universal love and wisdom, we can find and maintain a form of co-creative action.

·         For Annette and me it had sometimes been like a ride on thin ice, as - contrary to a well-prepared workshop in the usual sense - we had fully dropped all preconceived ideas (including even emergency-structures) and had fully surrendered to the wisdom that would (and did) manifest from moment to moment.

·         I have learned that:

o        we can learn to trust the wisdom of a collective field

      • when it is surrendered to pure consciousness (universal love and wisdom) as our true Being
      • when it has a meaningful centre (purpose)
      • and when the members of the circle see themselves and each other as unique manifestations of the One contributing with their gifts to the well-being of the whole

o        it is important that there are members capable to hold the space in this consciousness

o        the task of the space holder is not to be taken easy, especially when the group as a whole goes through chaos

o        accepting the challenge of chaos is essential, understanding it as the consequence of a paradigm having lost its credibility.

o        exit from chaos may lead in either of two basic directions:

      • evolution into a more differentiated paradigm with a higher credibility or
      • regression into an earlier paradigm recurring to lesser risk and a higher degree of apparent security

o        it all has to do with a gratitude to be at this very moment with an open heart for whatever may manifest

 

 

With warm regards,

Hans

 

I'm deeply grateful for Hans' courage to engage in this process and grateful for his sharing. Ria 

Moving The Edge seen as a prototype - by Finn Voldtofte

If the gathering Moving The Edge became a prototype, what was it then a prototype for?

I suggest: For gathering people around both a theme and an intention, with the intention being to participate for the sake of the whole (engaging a field of collective intelligence amongst the participants) and in service of the theme.

The theme for Moving The Edge was ”The role of collective intelligence in moving the edge of evolution”, so in this case the theme and the intention melted together. In the prototype the theme can vary but not the intention.


I suggest that theese points could be generic parts of the prototype:

Before

1. A call for conveners – can the initial vision be substantiated and backed up by more than one standing forward and commit to convene and host?

2. Establish clarity on purpose – and keep on refering back to it. Part of clarity is to be able to express the purpose in a simple and clear way.

During MTE this statement was present at the walls in all four directions:

Moving The Edge

An adventurous inquiry
into the role
of collective intelligence
in moving the edge of evolution


In hindsight this central part of the invitation kept us coming back to the purpose during the event, and also informed how we worked as a convening team.

3. Invite – and let those who feel called take responsibility for acting on the invitation. ”Feelling called” as the key identifier of ”who”.

4. Costs on ”A Company of Friends” basis. This also helps participants set expectations to the ”service-level” – expect things to be organized as it is amongst friends, including you taking your part of whatever needs to be done. Don’t expect a lot of people be there to take care of you and your needs. Pay for costs as you register – so that no other has to take any financial risk on your behalf.

From MTE we don’t know how an additional fee for the professional service of convening and hosting would have influenced the gathering.

5. It takes a field to convene a field.

”The invited field responds to what we do, not what we say, in the convening field. Any incoherence, lack of trust, lack of commitment, lack of clarity in our convening team will be sensed and responded to 'out there'. And we will sense and react upon any inertia 'out there' to having this gathering happen” (From the chronicles of convening team phonemeetings).


* Our intention is to gather for the sake of the emergence of a
coherent field of collective intelligence. As part of this
intention, we plan to set aside or hold our personal agendas in ways
that actively welcome the emergence of larger discoveries and
possibilities none of us saw before.

* As a convening team we are wrestling with "walking the talk" in
acting as a field of CI calling a field of CI.

* As a convening team we know, that we have initiated something we
don't know what is - and yet we move on with a deep felt sense that
this is something timely and ripe for evolution.

(from a clarification in response to a question on ”the distinct signature of the gathering)

6. In order to support us in ”acting from the middle” we established a routine of weekly phonemeetings, which lasted approx 90 min. We understood it as engaging the very same field as the gathering was intended to engage, so that the gathering would be a continuation of what we kept alive amongst us via the weekly calls and other kinds of communication.

7. Chronicle what you do and make it available. Transparency in communications and in decisions.

8. Act without attachment to outcomes. MTE almost didn’t make it due to attachment to an idea of number of participants. (Look  here for a detailed chronicle about that).  ”Outcomes” could also be ...finances, publicity, name-and-fame, job- and consulting opportunities....


During

9. Be attentive to the transition from the field being the convening team to being the entire gathering. Before MTE two of us hosted first one, then another, then a third in our house and finally joined with a fourth to be a group of 6 driving to the venue.

At the venue the convening team assumed the role of hosting team, and had attention to each participant's transistion from travel to arrival to settling in.


10. The flow of the gathering has four stages:

Opening – welcome, clarifying initial focussing questions and intentions, going through the stages of becoming a group of people in autonomy and communion.

Deepening – entering into the state of inquiry, that in surprising and not predictive ways adresses whatever is in the way for clarity and direct cognition on the intial intentions. Whatever it is that is in the way, principally will be what closes body, mind, heart and/or soul. What is in the way can be individual and/or group issues. Any individual holding back holds back the whole field. Any imbalances not adressed will need to be held consciously or unconsciously by someone. Any attempt to exclude will create an imbalance. The energetical experience of deepening is more and more intensity, more and more like being in a container under pressure.

Noticing – emerging patterns, indivdual and group cognition on the themes held in the initial intentions and questions, even though the themes barely have been touched upon yet.

Completing for next openening. What shall be said and what shall be done now to complete this gathering in a way that opens for what is next?


11. In each of the stages the overall pattern of opening-deepening-noticing-completing for next opening repeats. So for instance the experience of a period of confusion and even chaos that often is part of the opening, may be experienced again in each of the later stages, but expectedly less intense and shorter. This can be mistaken as if swinging back and forth between the stages, but I think it is really more the experience of substages within the overall stage.


12. The opening stage lasts until a situation is established where the group can enter into deepening inquiry together. This situation can be described as  the coexistence of a direct experience of (ideally) complete autonomy and communion at the same time. This is some times described as the state of real community (as opposed to pseudo community).

There are three phases in coming to this situation:

Establishing relations, noticing what unites
Calling in diversities, welcoming disturbances, noticing what creates complexity
Naming what wants to be set free, and what calls for being balanced.

The ”succes” of the first phase can be assessed on a trust-insecure scale. Likewise an ”opening of possibilities vs. chaos” scale can acces the work in the second phase, and ”expansion vs. emptiness”  for the third phase. If the work in each phase is done with elegance and ease, truust will be established, possibilites will open, and expansion of consciousness will happen. If the work is done unskillfull, halfheartedly or in the presence of resistance on the levels of body, mind and/or heart then lack of safety, chaos and emptiness (”I don’t get it at all”) will be experienced.


After

No points for a prototype comes to my mind now. It was of importance to the afterproces that we had a lot of laptops, wireless internet connection, access to printer, and a web-site like evolutionarynexus.org to start using while gathered.

Moving The Edge seen as a prototype - by Finn Voldtofte

If the gathering Moving The Edge became a prototype, what was it then a prototype for?

I suggest: For gathering people around both a theme and an intention, with the intention being to participate for the sake of the whole (engaging a field of collective intelligence amongst the participants) and in service of the theme.

The theme for Moving The Edge was ”The role of collective intelligence in moving the edge of evolution”, so in this case the theme and the intention melted together. In the prototype the theme can vary but not the intention.


I suggest that theese points could be generic parts of the prototype:

Before

1. A call for conveners – can the initial vision be substantiated and backed up by more than one standing forward and commit to convene and host?

2. Establish clarity on purpose – and keep on refering back to it. Part of clarity is to be able to express the purpose in a simple and clear way.

During MTE this statement was present at the walls in all four directions:

Moving The Edge

An adventurous inquiry
into the role
of collective intelligence
in moving the edge of evolution


In hindsight this central part of the invitation kept us coming back to the purpose during the event, and also informed how we worked as a convening team.

3. Invite – and let those who feel called take responsibility for acting on the invitation. ”Feelling called” as the key identifier of ”who”.

4. Costs on ”A Company of Friends” basis. This also helps participants set expectations to the ”service-level” – expect things to be organized as it is amongst friends, including you taking your part of whatever needs to be done. Don’t expect a lot of people be there to take care of you and your needs. Pay for costs as you register – so that no other has to take any financial risk on your behalf.

From MTE we don’t know how an additional fee for the professional service of convening and hosting would have influenced the gathering.

5. It takes a field to convene a field.

”The invited field responds to what we do, not what we say, in the convening field. Any incoherence, lack of trust, lack of commitment, lack of clarity in our convening team will be sensed and responded to 'out there'. And we will sense and react upon any inertia 'out there' to having this gathering happen” (From the chronicles of convening team phonemeetings).


* Our intention is to gather for the sake of the emergence of a
coherent field of collective intelligence. As part of this
intention, we plan to set aside or hold our personal agendas in ways
that actively welcome the emergence of larger discoveries and
possibilities none of us saw before.

* As a convening team we are wrestling with "walking the talk" in
acting as a field of CI calling a field of CI.

* As a convening team we know, that we have initiated something we
don't know what is - and yet we move on with a deep felt sense that
this is something timely and ripe for evolution.

(from a clarification in response to a question on ”the distinct signature of the gathering)

6. In order to support us in ”acting from the middle” we established a routine of weekly phonemeetings, which lasted approx 90 min. We understood it as engaging the very same field as the gathering was intended to engage, so that the gathering would be a continuation of what we kept alive amongst us via the weekly calls and other kinds of communication.

7. Chronicle what you do and make it available. Transparency in communications and in decisions.

8. Act without attachment to outcomes. MTE almost didn’t make it due to attachment to an idea of number of participants. (Look  here for a detailed chronicle about that).  ”Outcomes” could also be ...finances, publicity, name-and-fame, job- and consulting opportunities....


During

9. Be attentive to the transition from the field being the convening team to being the entire gathering. Before MTE two of us hosted first one, then another, then a third in our house and finally joined with a fourth to be a group of 6 driving to the venue.

At the venue the convening team assumed the role of hosting team, and had attention to each participant's transistion from travel to arrival to settling in.


10. The flow of the gathering has four stages:

Opening – welcome, clarifying initial focussing questions and intentions, going through the stages of becoming a group of people in autonomy and communion.

Deepening – entering into the state of inquiry, that in surprising and not predictive ways adresses whatever is in the way for clarity and direct cognition on the intial intentions. Whatever it is that is in the way, principally will be what closes body, mind, heart and/or soul. What is in the way can be individual and/or group issues. Any individual holding back holds back the whole field. Any imbalances not adressed will need to be held consciously or unconsciously by someone. Any attempt to exclude will create an imbalance. The energetical experience of deepening is more and more intensity, more and more like being in a container under pressure.

Noticing – emerging patterns, indivdual and group cognition on the themes held in the initial intentions and questions, even though the themes barely have been touched upon yet.

Completing for next openening. What shall be said and what shall be done now to complete this gathering in a way that opens for what is next?


11. In each of the stages the overall pattern of opening-deepening-noticing-completing for next opening repeats. So for instance the experience of a period of confusion and even chaos that often is part of the opening, may be experienced again in each of the later stages, but expectedly less intense and shorter. This can be mistaken as if swinging back and forth between the stages, but I think it is really more the experience of substages within the overall stage.


12. The opening stage lasts until a situation is established where the group can enter into deepening inquiry together. This situation can be described as  the coexistence of a direct experience of (ideally) complete autonomy and communion at the same time. This is some times described as the state of real community (as opposed to pseudo community).

There are three phases in coming to this situation:

Establishing relations, noticing what unites
Calling in diversities, welcoming disturbances, noticing what creates complexity
Naming what wants to be set free, and what calls for being balanced.

The ”succes” of the first phase can be assessed on a trust-insecure scale. Likewise an ”opening of possibilities vs. chaos” scale can acces the work in the second phase, and ”expansion vs. emptiness”  for the third phase. If the work in each phase is done with elegance and ease, truust will be established, possibilites will open, and expansion of consciousness will happen. If the work is done unskillfull, halfheartedly or in the presence of resistance on the levels of body, mind and/or heart then lack of safety, chaos and emptiness (”I don’t get it at all”) will be experienced.


After

No points for a prototype comes to my mind now. It was of importance to the afterproces that we had a lot of laptops, wireless internet connection, access to printer, and a web-site like evolutionarynexus.org to start using while gathered.

Art of Hosting Training Events

Here is where we can post materials and information about Art of Hosting training events we have run - useful to see how others have done it, and interesting to see how our practice evolves over time...

 

Art of Hosting Videos

Links to videos about the Art of Hosting.

 

If at first you don't see the video, move your mouse around just above the text saying "problem viewing video?" and a play arrow should appear. Press the play arrow and the video should appear.

 

How do we host a new way of being in the world?

 The Conversation:

 

 Name of Host:
 Host Skypename:
 Host E-mail:
 Date:
 Local time:
 

 The Conversation:

 

 Name of Host:
 Host Skypename:
 Host E-mail:
 Date:
 Local time:
 

 The Conversation:

 

 Name of Host:
 Host Skypename:
 Host E-mail:
 Date:
 Local time:
 
 

 

Questions alive:

  • How to bring different networks together to explore how to cross pollinate, in service of something larger?
  • What does new lifeaffirming economic structure look like?
  • How to bring nature experiences together with the intention of engaging Collective Intelligence and what hosting this needs?

 

Life on an AoH Host Team

Offered by Tenneson Wolf and Teresa Posakony


Stepping into an AoH host team is stepping into a few days of “co-creation.”  The art of hosting the practice space – the dojo of the Art of Hosting is what being on a host team is all about.   There are some roles we step into create the “dojo” – or the practice field.
 
The art of hosting is about becoming a leaderful community where the leadership is offered from everywhere in the circle.   It is rooted in the belief that everyone is a host of conversation, each of us bring into the space questions to inquire around, and that we together can create a rich field of learning, friendship, and work.
 
Our team helps create this field by listening well into the purpose and flow.  We work to stay present with what really wants to happen here and to be dynamically in tune with what is needed by host teams and in the day.  It’s always way more than we could ever imagine.
 
Art of Hosting is a “practicum” – it’s about each person stepping into our next level of practice.   Our roles in creating the space of practicum are:

  • To have a structure/flow in mind for the days that gives us freedom to create but we know where we are going.
  • To be here as co-learners hosting our own questions and learning edges, joining others in their inquiries (participate).  Our being not “apart” but “part” of the field of inquiry is very important for the leaderful community to emerge.  Where is our energy, our curiousity, our passion, our dream, our practical next step.  To create many hosting opportunities, offer invitations and support the teams well as coach/client. 
  • To offer core AoH models/maps/frameworks in plenary space, open space, coaching spaces and as people are working on their own hosting challenges.
  • Practicing – be a community of practice around the work… what are people designing beyond this AoH, where do we join? Doing the work, not just talking about it.

Structure/Flow:
Tenneson has written about what typically happens in an art of hosting.  There are some of the elements of structure we work with as a host team.

  • Each Art of Hosting has a unique purpose – we name this up front as a core team and work with it over the days.   We also keep listening/sensing into that purpose through the days together.
  • Theme of the days: As a team we work with the purpose and name themes for each day.  This is the “challenge” for the day.    Day hosts refine these and work with these in the design.
  • Day Hosts:  2-3 of us hold point for each day – this means creating the high level flow for the day and making sure the day flows with integrity (offer the opening and challenge for the day, who’s teaching, do we have hosting teams, who are the coaches and clients,  are we needing to adjust times, what is emerging in the design that is juicy, how do we close well.)  For the first day this also often means hosting a session, for the last day it often means doing the design along the way with participants, so others have the freedom to just participant.
  • AoH has said it’s about a few key methods/processes:  World Café, Open Space, Circle, and Appreciative Inquiry.  There are always elements of each of these within an AoH.  Lately we’ve been doing more open space particularly when there is work that needs to get done.  In the NY AoH we did 3 open space sessions and much of the sharing of  models/maps/frameworks went within open space.   The desire is to work with all three methodologies well.  To have them experience each in a quality way.  If possible to have 2 OS, 2 WC, and an experience of deeper circle council.    
  • There are key frameworks:  One of the challenges is deciding what to teach/offer in the full circle.  There are now so many maps/models.   Ones that frequently are offered in the full circle are: Chaordic Path, Diverge/Converge, and Four Fold Practice.  Five breaths tries to get in as does Chaordic Stepping stones and Art of Harvesting.  Other find their way into open space, harvesting team work, lunches, morning practice, etc, etc.

 
Participate:

  • I love being part of AoH host teams because I learn so much.  Being fully present to my own learning and my own inquiry and my own curiosity is one of the most important thingsJ  This is one of the way we contribute to being a leaderful field/community.
  • Hold space, hold intention – Are we there yet?
  • Step in – do a harvest, host morning session, make art, make music, make a trail of chocolate, invite others to join you in…


Teaching/Learning:

  • Presence: our own work with presencing, being present, speaking from wholeness/heart, meeting others in place of presence is the first essential conditionJ  Who is really here? what are they really up to?  What wants to happen? What can we learn? Who can we be? What might we do?
  • AoH comes from an Oral Tradition of sharing our stories and what we’ve found helpful as we’ve been hosting in the world.  Thus we teach from the circle as part of the circle and from the place of story.  It is really an offering and creating a space for inquiry.  
  • Our sharing of models/maps/frameworks happens
  • within teams (harvest team works on art of harvesting for example)
  • in the full circle
  • in open space called as a session or as we’re in a session and a model might be useful.
  • As moments of reflection – when we just finished a World Café talking about world café and what we learned and what matters.  After check-in talking about a couple points of circle practice
  • As part of coaching for the teams.
  • There are a few levels of experiencing/learning about the models:
o    Experiencing it as a participant.
o    Hosting and being part of a host team.
o    Hearing in large group reflections of how was that what did we learn about this form.  Where would it work well.
o    Knowledge Café: Another thing we’ve been doing recently is having a session early within the AoH where people can learn more about one of the models.  It’s a place to ask questions and get to know the basics.
o    Preparing self for what it would take to host back home.
  • The Journal is a teaching tool.  Trying to bring people intentionally into it as a host when we are experiencing something.  Using it at the end of the day to walk through all we learned and talking about it as a resource beyond the event.

Working with PARTICIPANT Hosting Teams:

There are two roles working with host teams.  Coach and Client:

Coach: is the one that works closely with the team.  Talks with them about design supports them as they crack the question, coaches them around all the things they need to do to offer the café/os/circle.  Provides coaching resources. Walks through their plans with them and coaches it forward.   After the hosting the coach re-convenes with the team to debrief and provide feedback as well as ideas for what else to do in the future.  Helps the team work with simplicity, ease, beauty, and playfulness…  watch everything show up that is needed – even through the groan zones.


Client: The client is often one of the day hosts who is clear on the purpose of the café and what it will look like when it is successful.  They share this with the team (often also mapping diverge/converge) as well perhaps insight they have on the question.  They also name what method to use (this is a café).  Client gives initial framing, checks in with the team at least once prior to the hosting to answer questions etc, and provides feedback to the team after the event.   We’ve found this role, though somewhat artificial, helps the team to work better together as some elements for what success looks like are established and the team can move forward with more ease.

The DNA of AoH

This is a page where we can store the treasures that come our way that give us insight into the DNA of our shared practice of the Art of Hosting.

Towards an emergent AoH taxonomy

This attempt to create a taxonomy to serve the AoH community's knowledge garden came from a conversation about "what is emergent taxonomy and how to go about growing it?".

 

To begin this work, we will have a conversation on the AoH Forum.

The Art of Hosting training in Belgium - Oct'06

Context of the Art of Hosting training

More and more leaders—people who want to help—yearn to experience and practice a different kind of leadership. We sometimes need to focus on ourselves, sometimes on our teams, sometimes on our communities—sometimes all three simultaneously. We yearn for leadership that sets free ours and other people’s creativity and intelligence. It is a leadership that is willing to let go of control in order to achieve the cooperation and results that our times call for.

Through various practices of hosting, it has become clear—the challenges of these times call for involvement, collective intelligence, and co-creation of the solutions we need to find. Sustainable solutions that serve the community are born in the community.

The Art of Hosting is built on the assumption and experience that we need to find new solutions for the common good, whether in corporations, government, education, non-profits, social movements, communities, or families. The time is now.

It is common sense to bring more people together in conversation. It is the way we have done it in generations past, gathering round fires and sitting in circles. It is the way we occasionally taste now, building core relationships that invite real collaboration. Human beings that are involved and invited to work together take ownership and responsibility when ideas and solutions must be put into action.

Flow of the four days

The Art of Hosting training happened in Belgium for the first time on October 11-13 +14; 2006. Below you find pages with information and harvest, which are related to this extremely inspiring gathering.

Please read along and join an Art of Hosting training in your neighbourhood! 

Our harvest of teachings, sessions, poetry ...

Our aim is to produce a full report of the training and all what happened. Together with the most beautiful pictures you ever saw!

We are still in the process of organising this, but you are most welcome to read.

If you want to add your piece of the report:
- make sure you are logged-in
- below, click on "add child-page"
- enter a title and put your text in the Body-frame (you don't have to do anything else)
- click Submit at the bottom! 

If you want some more explanation, you can read it here. Or go to Orientation Page, and at the bottom click on User's Guide.

Poetry to share

Participants of the Art of Hosting (Oct '06 Belgium) started sharing poetry even before the training happened. At a certain point there was an Open Space session on the power of poetry to reach other people: A Poem for Food. The participants were lyrical about it!

Please add your own poetry if you like! (Click on Add Child-page below) Some of them will be used on the Front page of this site. Thanks!

Connecting to the circle (by Lieven, Dec. 12, 2006)

Sent to us by Toke: 
Here are a few words flowing through - from this early jet-lagged morning - in tuning in to the AoH 47 of us to explore in the 3000 meters high space.  (Art of Hosting, Boulder, Colorado; November 2006)
 
this ancient art of being as doing

*******
a breath in
and a time to pause
a breath out
a time to be
in it

OH the gift of experience
what a door way


the gift of stillness
in the midst of it all

the gift of practice
with friends of life

the gift of giving
the simplicity of the heart 

the gift of timing
bring it all back home

gratitude
the gift hidden 
within

- toke

If spiders unite, they can tie down a lion

This is a call to arms
by Julian Still

arms to help,
arms to carry,
arms to fight and be merry,
arms to protect,
arms to say what needs to be said,
arms to do what needs to be done,
arms to hug and say sorry,
arms to see clearly and and call the alarm,
arms to push the load uphill,
arms to conduct,
arms to play,
arms to mark the dawning day,
arms to heal the wounded souls,
arms to grow the new green shoots,
arms to let go,
arms to hold on,
arms to breathe,
arms to bear witness,
arms to be inside,
arms to be outside,
arms to be,
arms

written after the Art of Hosting training, Oct. 2006

"a call to arms" is the medieval expression that 'the lord' would use to call his peasants, with their weapons, to come to fight. 

If you come to help me...

Connecting to the circle

On Friday they came, in the storm..

On Saturday, they already had blown away all clouds, creating the perspective on a clear, blue sky...

Crystalclear were their words, open the hearts, filled with the “spring of life”.

Taking in all this energy, they left in a clear blue sky, nurturing each other,

To take up Monday mornings’ storm.

Deep in the hearts, the connection is there,
To support the world,
By means of being the crystal-clear example.

Thanks for throwing the right words and energy in the water, dear jedi-mates.
Things can change, when we are the change ourselves...

And the being together changed the field here.

Up to a bright and beautiful mission

Together... Apart

Sandbox

Words from the heart ...


thank you Lieven and all of you

words from the heart
holds healing, feeling
and friendship

our time together
makes me know
how much simpler
it really is

when we listen and practice
the disciplines of the heart
and remember
who we are

alone and together

much appreciated

with love

- toke

To bow or not to bow

 

If spiders unite, they can tie down a lion.
Ethiopian proverb

Look at this website: lots of beautiful proverbs!

 
Spider's web

Spider's web

Spider's web

We Are the Ones We’ve Been Waiting For

 

 "If you come to help me save your rhyme,
 if you come because your liberation is tied to mine,
 then let us walk together."

 Australian Aboriginal poet


 photo by Ashley Cooper  Thanks!

Words from the heart ... (by Toke, Dec. 14, 2006)

This is not poetry in the strict sense, but it was a powerful story read by Tatiana during our Art of Hosting training. On the Art of asking Questions...

 

To bow or not to bow……….

” You can eat an apple”, I said and gave him the green fruit.
It was as if he had seen an apple for the first time.
First he just there and smelled it, but then he took a little bite.
”Mum - mum”, he said and took a bigger bite.
” Did it taste good ?” I asked.
He bowed deeply.

I wanted to know how an apple tastes the very first time you taste it, so I asked again:
” How did it taste ? ”
He bowed and bowed.
” Why do you bow ? ” I asked.
Mika bowed again. It made me feel so confused, that I hurried to ask the question again.
” Why do you bow? ”

Now it was him who became confused. I think he did not know if he should bow again or just answer.
” Where I come from we always bow, when someone asks an interesting question, ” he explained – ”and the deeper the question, the deeper we bow.”
That was the strangest thing I had heard in a long time. I could not understand that a question was something to bow for.
” What do you do when you greet each other?”
” We always try to find something wise to ask.” he said.  ”Why?”

First he bowed quickly, because I had asked another question and then he said:
” We try to ask a wise question to get the other person to bow.”
I was so impressed by the answer that I bowed as deeply as I could.
When I looked up Mika had put his finger in his mouth. After a long time he took it out.
”Why did you bow ?” he asked and looked insulted.
” Because you answered my question so wisely,” I said.

Now he said very loudly and clearly something that has followed me in my life ever since:
” An answer is nothing to bow for. Even if an answer can sound ever so right, still you should not bow to it.”

I nodded briefly. But I regretted it at once, because now Mika may think that I bowed to the answer he had just given.
”The one who bows shows respect”, Mika continued, ” You should never show respect for an answer.”
”Why not ?”
” An answer is always the part of the road that is behind you. Only questions point to the future.”
Those words were so wise, I thought, that I had to press my hands against my chin not to bow again……..

Jostein Gaarder 1996.

Past events and gatherings

 Fire

by Judy Brown

 What makes a fire burn
 is space between the logs,
 a breathing space.
 Too much of a good thing,
 too many logs
 packed in too tight
 can douse the flames
 almost as surely
 as a pail of water would.

 So building fires
 requires attention
 to the spaces in between,
 as much as to the wood.

 When we are able to build
 open spaces
 in the same way
 we have learned
 to pile on the logs,
 then we can come to see how
 it is fuel, and absence of the fuel
 together, that make fire possible.

 We only need to lay a log
 lightly from time to time.
 A fire
 grows
 simply because the space is there,
 with openings
 in which the flame
 that knows just how it wants to burn
 can find its way.

FIRE by Judy Brown

This song/message was sent to us by Frauke. 

George replied on that: 
It is one of my fave songs that I sang many times in the US, with brothers and sisters around campfires and in sacred circles. If any of you don’t know the song, you can find/buy it here:

We Are the Ones We’ve Been Waiting For
 
We have been telling the people that this is the Eleventh Hour.  Now you must go back and tell people that this is the Hour.  And there are things to be considered:
 
Where are you living?
What are you doing?
What are your relationships?
Are you in the right relation?
Where is your water?
 
Know your garden.  It is time to speak your truth.  Create your community. Be good to each other.  And do not look outside yourself for the leader. This could be a good time.
 
There is a river flowing now very fast.  It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid.  They will try to hold onto the shore.  They will feel they are being torn apart and they will suffer  greatly.
 
Know the river has its destination.  The elders say we must let go of the shore, and push off and into the river.
 
Keep our eyes open, and our heads above water.  See who is in there with you and Celebrate.
 
At this time in history, we are to take nothing personally.  Least of all ourselves.
 
For the moment that we do, our spiritual growth and journey comes to a halt.
 
The time of the lone wolf is over, Gather yourselves!
 
Banish the word struggle from your attitude and your vocabulary.
 
All that you do now must be done in a sacred manner and in Celebration.
 
We are the ones we've been waiting for.
 
--The Elders, Hopi Nation, Oraibi, Arizona, USA
September, 2001

"Innovation Tennisballs" at the AoH training

Training in innovation and the practice of partnership


„Making the simple complicated
is commonplace;

making the complicated
simple, awesomely simple,
that’s creativity.”


-    Charles Mingus – jazz musician

Purpose

-    To train cooperation and the practice of partnership
-    To inspire attitudes of innovation, new ways of thinking and acting together
-    To train the willingness to take on challenges now
-    To inspire the shifting of mindsets

The task:

”These tennisballs shall in numbered succession
pass through all hands in the group except one hand.”


In cooperation please each team develop a good method
that can meet this challenge.....

You are in competition with the other teams – the more  innovative and the faster you can do it, the better.
You should also agree on a ”time budget” – how long will your solution take ?
– and be ready to give it to the consultant when he or she comes to your group.

There are 3 challenges to this training session. Each team must make all 3 stages in order to complete the task. If you give up you are out of the game with whatever learning that may have given you.



Challenge 1: Develop af method that can solve the task in cooperation in the team with innovation and speed – remember to agree on a time budget – you have 7 minutes for that.

Then the consultant will come to you and see your solution acted out including taking the time – accept it or reject it, according to the task given. Did they stay with the budget or did it faster or slower will be registered by the consultant.

If the solution can be accepted you can choose to continue to....

Challenge 2: It has been done faster !

If you choose to continue you get 5 minutes to improve your method or to develop a new method that can do it faster. Remember to agree on the time it will take.

Then the consultant will come to you and see your solution acted out including taking the time. Did they stay with the budget or did it faster or slower will be registered by the consultant.

If the solution can be accepted you can choose to continue to....

Challenge 3: It has been done in less that 1 second by many other groups !

If you choose to continue you will get 5 minutes to improve your method or to develop a new method that can do it in 1 second.

Then the consultant will come to you and see your solution acted out including taking the time.

The training is over.

Reflection on learnings:

–    The group stays a together for 10 more minutes and gets a reflection paper with these questions to collective reflect on and harvest their best learnings.

1.    How did our team work work ? Did we practice the values / the cooperation principles that we decided for?
2.    What kind of leadership did we practice?
3.    Where were the transition points in our work ? What made that happen ?
4.    If we transfer this experience to our daily work as leaders, what possibilities do we see ?
5.    If you together look at the real situation of Wiltshire partnership practice – where are the real challenges ?– please write 2 of them down on seperate paper and bring them with you to the cafe.
6.    please give your other answers on this reflection paper to the documentation team.

Thank you for your cooperation  and for your willingness to learn through play – an ancient art.

Harvest map of the 4th day

 
mindmap of harvest from the last set of Open Space sessions
 

Day three: flavour your honey!

Open Space day 3 (13 oktober 2006)
(sent to us by Brigitte)

During the last two days we learned a lot about:
-    day 1: self/ground: circle, chaos/order, hosting stories, organising patterns,
-    day 2: team: open space: newt step, 5 breaths, world café: better world

Question: What do you need to flavour your honey to host your community, your work ?
or: What do you need to feel ready to meet your challenge ?

Harvest:
-    how to create a space were true questions can be shared?
-    authenticity leads to true questions and true solutions
-    be authentic
-    authenticity is the easiest common language that creates
-    this is for our world: conversations as micro-cosmos
-    connect
-    I am opening space to connect
-    I ‘ll go over on opening space to connect
-    It  just f***ing works !
-    The beginnings: start with a resonant call; find your mates or let them find you
-    Check-in honey: 5 min: ask everyone at the table to complete the sentence:
    o    During the next few hours I want to be in a place that…  or
    o    Wouldn’t it be beautiful if…
-    personal and collective clarity helps when difficult…
-    to be hosted is as valuable for learning as to host:
    o    the art of being hosted
    o    the art of asking the questions rather than having the answers
-    what of the two am I: a facilitator social entrepreneur or an entrepreneuring facilitator?
-    hosting reconnection to our humanity
-    love the edge …
-    words enable words
-    honour the pure invitation
-    What is Europe’s unique contribution to the world and what is our role in it ?
-    we create what we are
-    listen to timing
-    we do know each other and this work of opening our world again
-    refreshing ideas to take home and make things even better
-    momentum through mate-ship; mushrooms
-    I found order in my journey for development of myself and communities, and found that my development and the community development go hand-in–hand
-    Be attentive to the whole (no just my own perspective)
-    Be ready
-    Be clear and present and trust the system
-    Always ask myself: how to go from 1.0 to 2.0 ?
-    The art of foreplay and harvesting
-    Be a warrior to heal
-    To learn to be trained by co-trainers in a project in co-creativity
-    The value of understanding through experience and leaving the details till later
-    If  words shape the world … create or use words that will shape the world you want

Mindmaps by Dey

Open Space
A Poem for Food
12th October 2006

notes by Hilde Vandormael

This is what we did…
We gave each other gifts, poems we couldn’t have done without…


‘If you only want

what physical reality can give,
you are an employee

If you only seek the invisible
You are not living your truth

But you will be forgiven
For forgetting
What you really want is
Loves, confusing, joy…’

Rumi
(gift from Toke)



Actors waiting in the wings of Europe

Actors waiting in the wings of Europe
we already watch the lights on the stage
and listen to the colossal overture begin.
For us entering at the height of the din
it will be hard to hear our thoughts, hard to gauge
how much our conduct owes to fear or fury.

Everyone, I suppose, will use these minutes
what we were doing and saying that year
during our last few months as people, near
the sucking mouth of the day that swallowed us all
into the stomach of a war. Now we are in it

and no more people, just little pieces of food
swirling in an uncomfortable digestive journey,
what we said and did then has a slightly
Fairytale quality. There is an excitement
In  seeing our ghosts wandering

(Unfinished)
March 1944
Keith Douglas
(gift from Julian)


Visit to an artist
For David Jones

Window upon the wall, a balcony
With a light chair, the air and water so
Mingled you could not say which was the sun
And which the adamant yet tranquil spray.
But nothing was confused and nothing slow:
Each way you looked, always the sea, the sea.

And every shyness that we brought with us
Was drawn into the pictures on the walls.
It was so good to sit quite still and lose
Necessity of discourse, words to choose
And wonder which were honest and which false.

Then I remembered words that you had said
On art as gesture and as sacrament,
A mountain under the calm form of paint
Much like the Presence under wine and bread –
Art with its largesse and its restraint.

Elisabeth Jennings
(gift from Hilde)



How do I listen?

How
Do I
Listen to others?
As if everyone were my Master
Speaking to me
His Cherished
Last Words

Hafiz



A.A. milne, Winnie The Pooh, chapter 1, ‘In which we are introduced to Winnie – the Pooh and some bees and the stories begin’
Gift from Julian



Hafiz, The Gift, p92, ‘Stop calling me a pregnant woman’




We saw a heron!


Why just ask the donkey

Why just ask the donkey in me
To speak to the donkey in you,

When I have so many other beautiful animals
And brilliant colored birds inside
That are longing to say something wonderful
And exciting to your heart?

Let’s open all the locked doors upon our eyes
That keep us from knowing the Intelligence
That begets love
And a more lively and satisfying conversation
With the Friend.

Let’s turn loose our golden falcons
So that they can meet in the sky
Where our spirits belong –
Necking like two
Hot kids.

Let’s hold hands and get drunk near the sun
And sing sweet songs to God
Until He joins us with a few notes
From His own sublime lute and drum.

If you have a better idea
Of how to pass a lonely night
After your glands may have performed
All their little magic

Then speak op sweethearts, speak up,
For Hafiz and all the world will listen.

Why just bring your donkey to me
Asking for stale hay
And a boring conference with the idiot
In regards to this precious matter –
Such a precious matter as love,

When I have so many other divine animals
And brilliant colored birds inside
That are all longing
To so sweetly
Greet
You!


Hafiz, 14th century, The gift, poems by Hafiz the great Sufi master,
translated by Daniel Ladinsky

Gift from Toke



Listening to the middle…

‘The power and gift of a heart felt poem
As a strange attractor in the art of inviting each other in?’


‘Sweet
this language
of soul

this poetry
that touches
our hearts
across time and space’
Toke

‘How can my language
Become poetry as food
That invites people in?

How can I listen this way to others?’



‘Poetry
in talking,
in listening…

Can you hear the poet between the lines?’

‘Listening to a language you don’t understand is like poetry…
The beauty of the sound becomes meaningful…’


‘Listen wider, harder, deeper…
The hosting of poets across time and space… Magic happens’

‘Poets are like warriors who touch our soul’


Listening to a song by Keb Mo
‘When I hear stuff like this
I’m inside him and he’s inside me
We see the same’


‘Blues and poetry honour the shadow and sorrow…
Sadness and joy…

In the middle of the path, giving yourself into it,
THE FEELING OF LIFE



- Hannelore - Julian - Toke – Hilde -


Daddy Day!

Standing here, my smile wide
I can’t hide
The joy it brings to me
To rhyme about my family
And my baby girl
Let the flags be unfurled
It’s the coming of a new world
‘Cause once a week I get to take a day
To stay home with my princess and play
I get to have a daddy day!

She babbles, I babble back
She smiles and the hardness around my heart comes under attack
The walls break down
Crumble to the ground
Without a sound
As they dissolve
I evolve
Into a human
With heart laid open
No more choking
On right and wrong
Just cranking out crazy baby songs
With no rhyme or reason
It takes me some believin’
In my own goodness
To let go
Drop the show
Arrive and play the day away
All those other things I should be doing get in the way
Meetings, Phonecalls, dirty washing gotta be done
Then I remember like the risin’ of the eastern sun
  It’s Daddy Day
All I gotta do is play!

The rest of the world melts away
As she struggles towards first words
In the coos and shirieks
I forget the roof leaks
While she batters the basonette’s hanging toys
And enjoys
The noise
As my wife and I cowboy hoot
Yeeeeehah!
Like we found the long lost loot
Celebrating Emma’s first time at getting the purple monkey to sing
She brings
A return to play
I fall more and more in love every day
Fueling a yearning
For unlearning
A lifetime of taking myself too seriously
Now me,
My wife and my baby
Waltz around the room
All singing out of tune
At the top of our voices
The family rejoices
It was hard to make the choices
Only working 4 days a week
Stopping writing this poem when I am in the flow
Because Emma wants to grab my nose
Now I would never turn away
The opportunity
For a Daddy day!

Sometimes I hear the news
Get the blues
Frustrated by our leaders excuses
For the abuses
Against planet and people
But the feeling of being powerless cannot linger
As I get lost in the amount of fingers
Emma has managed to cram in her mouth
Outstanding!
That’s eight fingers and a thumb
Where once I was numb
Overwhelmed and confused
I am converted by a gorgeously gargling
Champion spit bubble blowing darling
With flesh so tender you can barely tell
You’re touching it
As your finger goes
“Round and round the garden like a teddy bear
One step two step tickle you under there”
Aagh!
Shrieks of delight
Bring the sunlight
Into one my craziest years
Moving country, getting married, new job
And all the fears
Of having a baby
Disappear
On Daddy Day
When I drop
The worry
Stop
To hurry
I highly recommend
Shrugging the shoulders
Dropping the boulders
Of being grown up
Take a day
Where all else falls away
A day of Play
Take a Daddy Day.

Tim Merry
(gift from Toke)

 

More poetry here

Mindmaps by Dey

Dey made different mindmaps of different sessions.

One was on: Of all places, why have I choosen to be here? This mindmap is very big and you can see it in the Photo Gallery, under Art of Hosting Training. He wrote as overall comment: Strong presence of the search for 'connection' in the different areas.

A second one is about: What's my edge; my burning question?











Another one is on: Conditions - Circumstances that enable more on the edge of Chaos and Order:


 

 

 

 

 





And the last one is about the Team Exercise with the Numbered Balls: our learnings! 

 

More background information

On the web is a lot of content that can help you in your hosting work.

First of all you can go to the Art of Hosting website. And you can download our own Art of Hosting Heerlijckyt Journal.

Below you find a page about the World Café User's Guide.

There is a very interesting document made by the Pioneers of Change, called Mapping Dialogue.

About the ongoing Art of Hosting as 'operating system' in the Health Care System in Columbus, Ohio

A poetry-spiritual approach to holding space, by Chris Corrigan: the Tao of Holding Space.

 

World Café: Users Guide

One of the tools of Art of Hosting is the World Café. In our training we used it, besides the Circle and Open Space. There is a User's Guide available for everybody who want to know more and maybe want to use the World Café in her own environment. You can download this User's Guide here.

The best way to know more about the World Café is to go to their website; it is beautiful and a lot of content can be read there. There is also a new video to watch...

My Thursday meeting (by Erik)

The first challenge I had to meet after the AoH training was a meeting on Thursday next. I had talked to several people at the AoH training about the meeting. AoH Belgium couldn’t have come at a better moment!

Prelude

What was the meeting about? Over the past couple of years there have been four efforts to develop a vision for the Flemish agricultural sector. However, up to now, most of these efforts did not lead to action for several reasons. Our small foundation has been awarded a small project to try to align these efforts to be able to take next steps.

We decided to do that in series of five multistakeholder dialogues with input of each of the four visioning projects. We also decided to frame the whole using the theory of transition management, a large-scale system change methodology that is very popular in the Netherlands and increasingly also in the EU (see for example www.drift.eur.nl). For this we invited Prof. Jan Rotmans, the Dutch transition guru, to deliver a lecture.

We brought together a group of 25, including CEOs, top civil servants, NGO people and academics, all from the Flemish agricultural sector. The diversity was so great that never such a group had met before.

My role was to host and facilitate all the dialogues, including the first one. So as you can see, my Thursday meeting was quite a challenge for me. All that was set was the timing: the introductory lecture by Rotmans from 2 to 4 pm for a larger public; a dialogue of the core group of 25 with Rotmans from 4.30 to 6.30 pm; diner from 6.30 to 8 pm; and a closing dialogue from 8 to 9 pm (without Rotmans).

The following questions raged through my head before the meeting (and at the Heerlijkheid):

  • How to build ownership and a common understanding of the project among all the participants?
  • How to get people to get to know each other?
  • How to inspire people such that they would stay on board and come back next time?
  • How to make sure that all voices can be heard?
  • How to increase the quality of the conversation?

One of my mates was particularly concerned with the third question, that is that some people (particularly from business) would not stick for the whole process.

My harvest from AoH Belgium was rich, but I brought particularly three things to the meeting:

  • I was going to center, to be present and make sure that to be aware of what is living or what wants to emerge
  • I was not going to overstructure and walk the line between chaos and order, let go and trust and allow new things to emerge
  • I was going to be authentic, whatever that would mean; I was not going to be a chameleon.

The meeting

 

The lecture by Rotmans and Q&A from 2 to 4 pm were good, but classical.

In the half hour break we rearranged the room and made a circle. While it was the very first time in my life I had organised a conversation in full circle, I had never any doubt it wouldn’t work. People came back from the break, looked a bit puzzled seeing the chairs arranged in a circle, but without any comment everyone sat down and we started the first conversation, which was a further discussion with Prof. Rotmans on transition management. For introduction I only asked people to say who they were and what their affiliation was. I originally wanted to have a more extended introduction, but at 1.30 pm I was told Prof. Rotmans was to leave at 6 pm instead of 8 pm.

What circle did, is rearrange the group and force everyone to be present. During the lecture, the big guys were typically sitting in the back, having an overview of the whole (they were also late for the lecture) and having the option to opt out. In circle, everyone has an overview of the whole. And everyone was clearly present. You could really sense that.

What circle didn’t do, is create a level playing field for all participants. Those with the loudest voice asked their questions (all of them were men). Also all questions were critical towards the speaker. Nobody that spoke, did so in terms of what would be possible. While very aware of these biases, I kept my intervention at a minimum, that is, acting as a moderator and making sure that those who signalled that they wanted to say something could do so. I had thought a lot about introducing a talking piece, also beforehand, but I felt the group was not ready for that yet.

Having diner (in the same room) really shifted things. People got to know each other and trust emerged.

As a result, the second conversation, also in circle was much more appreciative, also because now the conversation was about the purpose of the project. People that didn't speak before, did so now. Unintentionally, I was very bad in formulating how I saw the purpose, but in fact that was a good thing, because several people restated the purpose in a much better and accurate way, thus increasing the ownership of the project.

Epilogue

On being present

 

Two events shook up my state of presence. First, at the very beginning I got the news that Prof. Rotmans was going to stay 2 hours less, so I had to redesign the process. But I didn't panic or felt in any way disturbed. In fact, I was turning this news into an opportunity: it would give us more time for informal interaction. Second, during the break I called my wife because I knew she would be getting news about her promotion at work. In fact at the very moment I phoned, she told me: hold on, I just got an e-mail, and... yes, I got the promotion! That news was much more emotional, also because I had been coaching her the last couple of weeks. But I immediately got centered and put my mind entirely to the job at hand. In fact, I think the news gave me more energy to take up the challenge of the meeting.

 

On letting go, holding space and embracing chaos as much as order

 

Holding space, that was what I was feeling was my main job that day.  At two times in the conversations, my interventions turned out surprisingly well, while starting off on the wrong foot. For the first conversation, I had hung up a flip stating the core question of the project emphasizing that action should follow a broad basis. Rotmans, taking his view of transition management, critiqued the question stating in fact that the very opposite should be the purpose: for innovation yoy don't need a broad basis, but in fact non-mainstream thinking. Chaos! But in fact, it really pushed people to think deeply about the core question. And probably assisted in building common ground. In the second conversation I reformulated the purpose of the project in a rather clumsy way. Chaos again! What do you mean? But then several people reformulated it in a far better way. Collective intelligence at work!

 

On chameleons

There were a lot of conversations at AoH Belgium about the tension between being authentic and using specific jargon at the one hand and having a larger impact and using more accessible language on the other. I used the metaphor of having to be a chameleon. Many people understood this dilemma and told me I should choose the first option: walk the talk using words that create worlds. But on reflecting on this dilemma now, I wonder whether it isn't possible to do both, for that's the solution to many dilemmas--realising that there isn't one, and that it is possible to transcend it. To have and-and instead of or-or. I think it is possible...

Open Space session AoHosting Europe 4th day

One of the Open Space sessions of the Art of Hosting 'at work' day was a session hosted by Toke and Ria around the idea of gathering AoH practitioners in Europe. Not just for the fun, but for looking deeper into the pattern of AoH and how it is related to the forming of Learning Centers.

As you can see in the picture: it was a very rich conversation!

 

 

A first goal was named: RESTING! Enjoying the company of friends! 

 

It was said that it will not be an Art of Hosting training. The pre-requisite would be that participants at least joined one AoH training. Although we also want to invite non-AoH people. Toke called them 'warriors of opening space'. They have the same intention as AoH has, but maybe they never heard about AoH. But they are welcome if they follow an AoH training, so that we can use the same language.

We will gather in this event from the heart, and in service of the whole.

Next goal was identifyed as the search for the real, deep DNA of AoH

 

Can we find the deeper pattern that is stronger and simpler?

The 5 breaths were drawn as a path; related to this DNA. Later Toke draw more related concepts... sorry if I don't know anymore all the details...

We talked about AoH as a language... and related to momentum... 

 

The third goal had to do with our European context.

Europe is a geography;
it is also a Social Project;
and we want to look deeper into the unique contribution of Europe in the world.

And how can we be pro-active out from AoH?

 

As you can see on this detail:

One of the questions that came out of the previous thread was:

What can AoH also be?

Out from this came this:

        A o h o A o H

Art of Hosting on Art of Hosting

 

 

A fourth goal was named as:
to recognise ourselves as community of practice. This means:

Discover and agree on our domain and sought for impact

Form the community - the web of our relationships and response-abilities

Build our practice - activities to pursue, knowledge to document, etc.

 

 

 

 

Finally we came to a conclusion: We will do it!

 

May 2007

in de Heerlijckyt

Callers are Toke, Ria, and George

Co-convenors are:

Lieven, Simone, Jos,

Helen

and we want a harvest team!

 

If spiders unite, they can tie down a lion! 

 

 

 

 

Pictures

Hello, dear ones all. I have uploaded a fat selection of photos to Flickr. You can see them here.

The Seven Little Helpers

The seven little helpers

The line between chaos and order is the connection with life. It is difficult to enter, but whenever you entered it, you feel it. It might vibrate, it vibrates between the Warrior and the Midwife, the chaos and order, and we live it now. Enough of philosophy…
Forget all complexity, all the books, and you are in the centre then what are the essentials?

Be present

Be present, and breathe.
What are some of the ways that we can encourage and support each other to be fully present in the conversation?

For a little hobbit, you might need some more tools…

Find your mates

In Lord of the Rings the only thing Sam could do was to be a friend. ‘Your mates’ is a deeper level than being a team. With your mates you can sit in the fire and you trust your life to them.

Have a good, wicked question:
A wicked question is a question that rocks, a strategic question. A question can change the world. What is peace? Can we live in peace? What is work? What now? A question is the sword of the warrior or the midwife.
What are some of the characteristics of good questions that we can ask of each other, that best serves our inquiry?

Create listening:

Create an open space for listening. How can talking become a true conversation? Only by listening. All technologies combine into the talking piece (or listening piece); that what can make a group listen that otherwise don’t. Please: explore the power of the talking piece!
What are some of the structures and methods that enable us to participate in meaningful conversations?

Harvest!
Sometimes we are so involved in the process that is going on and we forget to harvest; but some people (like Monica and George) will gently nudge…
What are some of the most helpful things we can harvest from our conversations?

Wise decision
If the conversation is not finished, be clear about that. The pressure for results make that many decision that are made are not wise. What if in each community there is a decision that, if they would take it, everything would be simpler. It is not the decision that is made in the boardrooms. Wise has to do with the ability to transform, and also with: who does it serve? I have seen that grandmothers would be in the parliament, and children councils: no decision should be made without these councils.

How do we wish to make our decisions so that they create clarity and wise actions?

DO IT
If we co not act on what we talked about, then something is not whole. The wisdom of convergence, to do what is real…  not too much projects…


Spoken by Toke Moeller
notes from Ria Baeck
Art of Hosting Belgium October 2006

Breath of Divergence and Convergence

During the training Toke shared the story of what is possible with the Art of Hosting in a big change program. He told the story of what happened the last two years in Columbus, Ohio, in the Health Care Sector.

This initiative has a website of its own and you can visit it here. Especially the Executive Summary and the reports of the later assemblies are good reads!

Besides this I want to share the Breaths-story as I heard it two years ago. I find it still very meaningful when you start hosting conversations. Here it is:

The breath of Divergence and Convergence   by Toke Moller.
The breath of Design

June 2004           
Report : Ria Baeck

1. The art of FOREPLAY
= Preparing the ground; the quality of the field = the quality of the yield”
= Tuning in in the event = the art of meeting where people are right now.
If you are going to do this process, describe it to the participants in advance!

= First Breath: checking: Is there a need? No need, don’t do it!
The first point is made by the initiator.
= Core group work: the common purpose is set. The clarity of the purpose gives the right to invite others in; to send the invitation out.

2. The Art of INVITATION = Second Breath :
= with Participants: the invitation for the event is sent + a request to answer some questions (gives a lot of information, questions become clear)

3. ACTUAL EVENT

•    The context: be aware of it! The history, the strategies, ….
•    The core question: this is the point were this big breath is starting; the focus point; but the core question goes on as a red threat trough the whole event.
•    The challenge: right ‘behind’ this core question starts the challenge.
You cannot challenge people if you haven’t done it yourself; challenge the expectations of the participants.
•    The givens: every event has its own borders; they mark the width of this big breath: each method has its limitations, each organisations has its limitations + there are limitations in the heads of the participants: what they think is possible or not. Out of fear, lots of people want ‘to control’ what is happening …
•    The groan zone: people speak about their frustrations = something is happening inside them … Be aware that this will always happen; don’t try to fix it! You better tell in advance that this will happen. Peoples view get shattered. This zone is needed for the opening to emerge; people become aware that they are in a learning environment.
The host team has to go through the groan zone themselves, before they can host it in a group!
Open Space has the ability to deal with the groan zone (the law of the 2 feet, the butterfly …). The art of hosting is not to manage it. As a host:  remember the centre/the purpose!!! + look at the centre, not at the individuals, ground yourself, be calm, speak to the centre.
•    The opening: a lot of learning takes place; there are some personal integration points already.

4. The art of HARVESTING: If there is nothing harvested, people are not satisfied. The individual integration points get connected on a collective level: start of new projects …
•    Results : you can plan the event for two kinds of results (or just one) : for the new projects and/or the connectedness, the trust between the participants.

AFTER THE EVENT
•    next breath: after the closing of the event there will always start another breath : always divergent – convergent ……………

Leadership = two energies that dance together
The masculine: call in the question; stand in the centre of the group = be the warrior!
The feminine: be the midwife = step out of the centre and leave it to the group; get out of the way. You have to allow that people take on their own leadership.
 

Participants in the Art of Hosting workshop, Belgium, October 2006

* Hilde Vandormael, Belgian advisor in the educational field (federal departement of education), particularly for enhancing equal chances for children and adolescents in the primary and secundary schools.

* Sander Mahieu: trainer/consultant in Holland; www.synnova.nl

* Helen Titchen Beeth, translator for European Commission, living in Brussels (original English), fascinated by Integral Consciousness and Spiral Dynamics

* Nicole Baussart, head of a working unit in European Commission, working in Italy (origin Belgium), wants to change her working evironment

* Margaret Warton-Woods, working in translator unit for the European bodies, living in Luxemburg (origin English?)

* Erik Matthijs, Belgian professor in agricultural economics at KULeuven; working with Global Leadership initiative in the Sustainable Food Lab

* Lieven Callewaert, initiator of Heerlijckyt van Elsmeren, consultant, Belgian 

* Monique Oostwegel; Programme and Communication Manager of the ABN AMRO Foundation, the Netherlands Monique is not coming: she had to cancel for personal reasons.

* Jos Niesten, consultant Org.Development, The Netherlands; fascinated by co-creation; www.JosNiesten.com  and www.Co-Creation.nl

* Dettie Luyten; coordinator and co-founder of advertisement office Fé, Belgian; fascinated by what is also possible; www.fe-online.be (will join the first and fourth day)

* Julian Still, interim manager until recently, living in Belgium, originally British; fascinated by complexity (will join first and second day)

* Rik Verscheuren; connects nature-people-spirituality; Belgian;

* Frauke Godat; involved with AIESEC, Pioneers of Change, the movement We Are What We Do and Greenpeace; living in Amsterdam (coming the fourth day)

* Marie-Bernadette Weckx; coordinator and facilitator of  a network of Secundary Schools; Belgian,

* Brigitte Pycke ; colleague of Marie-Bernadette

* Philipp Meyerbroeker, young German, working as a freelancer in the areas of training, consulting & project management, recently involved with Pioneers of Change (coming the fourth day)

* Hannelore Coene, young woman working for a Belgian NGO Vredeseilanden; building dialogue with farmers and across stakeholders

* Yvonne Wertelaers, Belgian woman, 79 years old, healer - mentor - elder (coming the fourth day)

* Jessica Robinson, Project Coordinator of The Environment Council in London

* Frederike Vos, young Dutch lady, recent colleague of Tatiana 

* Tatiana: Canadian in the Netherlands, learning designer/host and sustainability practitioner, passionate about how groups can discover meaning together and turn it into meaningful action! Partner of Engage! InterAct (www.engage.nu/interact) and Waterlution (www.waterlution.org) (facilitation team)

After the AoH training

I received an email from Nicole saying:

"Coming back I had no stop in working. I was involved in a pilot training in Internal-Communication regarding the managers level. I brought the best I could from our AoH training.

I can tell that it has been really useful and welcomed.
AoH is new for them as well as OS and WCafé. But, little by little...
 
I am preparing with colleagues a workshop x next week. I will bring ideas and methods from AoH as OS."
 
 
Read here what Dey wrote in his blog: I'm not outside! (with nice pictures!)

 

AoH experiences (by Nicole)

Sorry to be so late in answering. I have been really busy at work...
 
Well, I have been impressed by AoH and still dreaming at night... Busy nights...
-----------------------
One experience:
I had to organise a workshop gathering groups of colleagues from 5 countries, all working in the same area which I am responsible for. My hierarchic responsible was thinking about a classic method meeting (big table + presentation + asking questions - creating debates).
We were 12 people. I didn't want to attend a classic meeting (which can be really boring sometimes):
- having to take the sole minutes,
- having the danger to treat one subject at a time amongst 12 persons > it can take a long time + people speaking all together... not reaching an aim...
 
So, I suggest to hold a kind of Café. After a little of hesitation, he agreed.
 
I don't know if I have chosen the right method... instinctively I did the following:
 
I had some precise topics to be discussed. I proceeded in this way:
Time at hand was: 1 afternoon for exchange + 1 morning for harvesting
- division of the topics (10) in 2
- creation of 2 groups of persons gathered by affinity
- one table holder by group
- preparation of the logistic tools > big markers of several colours, flipcharts to be sticked on the wall, tape, coloured paper (half A4 format), post-it notes.
- unfortunately NO Empty space...
- two rooms allowing the groups to gather their ideas
- after +/- one hour: change of group, keeping the same table host ,so that all participants could contribute to all the topics and have been involved (except the table holder > at that moment).
- in the successive morning: all together with the flipcharts full with ideas > each table holder explained what happened at their table
- harvesting and collection of the information for writing the report.
 
Reaction: the colleagues were surprised when I asked them to start this practise. They realised they were all directly involved and active. Little by little they got really involved and enthusiastic. Normally, you have one writing more than an other, another speaking more etc.
I was checking the situation, guiding them and paying attention they didn't speak all at once.
 
There were also two butterflies...
 
I coudn't bring the "stone" dialogue tool. The time will come...
 
I wanted to close with a circle but my colleague said no. Pity. He was afraid, I could see it...
 
He closed the session asking the colleagues to give us (him and me) an appraisal from 1 to 5 on 4 questions. He didn't ask my advice beforehand... I told him later I disagreed with any competition mentality. Fortunately the colleagues were intelligent and gave the max. score to all the "evaluation" questions.
 
They all thanked me to have organised the meeting in such a way. They were enthusiastic.
I felt emberassed as in reality I did very little.
 
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Other experience
My unit had a team building day (organised by a private company). After little efforts of persuasion to my Chef, I succeeded to create a Circle.
.
We were standing on our feet at the end of the day, in a valley in the montains (beautiful weather); 30 people in a Circle. They looked at me with a little of "no confidence" at first. I desired to gather their "ressenti" of the day, we were experiencing all together some challenges.
 
First, I realised a very simple Tai Chi exercice (the one I did in AoH). I felt really responsible of that guidance and asking people to lift their hands and take consciousness of their mates. At first, some of them were talking and laughed. I asked silence for the respect of their compagnons. I suggesed to feel the energy of the group.
And, then it has been silence...
It worked.... amazing. I couldn't believe!
Then, I asked from each of them to say only one word about that day. Great, just fantastic. I could hear: consciousness, joyous, bleu sky, good to be in group, harmony, trust, to re-do it again...
Great people!
 
Some of them thanked me to give them this opportunity. My Chef thanked me too as it was like of an harvesting of the day. He was happy to see that everybody enjoyed the day and the being together.
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I will come back later...
 
I had a look at Chris (Corrigan) site > extraordinaire. I am an 'appasoniate' of Open Space...
I have to leave now...
 
With warm love,
Nicole

Official report by Helen

REPORT ON TRAINING ATTENDED

ART OF HOSTING
Conversations that Matter

<!-- Times New Roman -->Held from 11-14 October at Geetbets, in Belgium. Five facilitators, 25 participants.

The subject might seem esoteric, but the Art of Hosting is a profoundly practical and impactful discipline. It enables groups to harness their collective intelligence for the good of the whole and, when practiced regularly, transforms teams into communities in a very short time. The greater the diversity, the better it works!

During the training days we experienced a number of different formats for working in groups. The first three days focused on learning the techniques by engaging with them. The fourth was spent putting them into practice with real cases brought by the participants.

<!-- Times New Roman -->1. Circle

<!-- Times New Roman -->An excellent opening practice to learn the art of active listening and build trust.
Practices: Speak with intention, listen with attention, tend to the well-being of the group.
Four agreements: Listen without judgement; whatever is said in the circle stays in the circle; offer what you can and ask for what you need; silence is also part of the conversation.

<!-- Times New Roman -->2. World Café(1)

<!-- Times New Roman -->A method for creating a living network of collaborative dialogue around questions that matter in real life situations. The more diversity the better.
Operating principles: create hospitable space; explore questions that matter; encourage each person’s contribution; connect diverse people and ideas; listen together for patterns, insights and deeper questions; make collective knowledge visible.
Assumptions: the knowledge and wisdom we need is present and accessible; collective insight evolves from honouring unique contributions, connecting ideas, listening into the middle and noticing deeper themes and questions; the intelligence emerges as the system connects to itself in diverse and creative ways.

<!-- Times New Roman -->3. Open space
<!-- Times New Roman -->Enables all kinds of people, in any kind of organisation, to create inspired meetings and events. Participants create and manage their own agenda of parallel working sessions around a central theme of strategic importance. Very effective with large groups provided there is a real issue to crack.

Powerful questions
Focus attention, intention and energy. They are simple and clear, thought-provoking, they generate energy, focus inquiry, challenge assumptions, open new possibilities and evoke more questions. If you want to kill a good question… answer it. In our organisation, we spend our time seeking to answer questions, and in so doing we close down our field of possibilities and innovation.

Harvesting
At the end of all conversations, there is a rich crop of ideas and wise actions to be harvested. If the fruits are not to be lost, the field must be prepared at the outset, the harvest must be planned, the fruits prepared and processed and fed forward into the next round. Individual reflection and harvesting will raise the level of the collective harvest. In learning processes this can be done intentionally, using a journal.(2)

Chaordic pattern
One common feature that tends to emerge in all the different conversation formats is the eruption of chaos and confusion as an inevitable part of the process. For individuals used to the superficial politeness of the traditional command and control structure, this can be quite uncomfortable the first few times it happens. However, experience shows that this phase is part of a deeper pattern, known as the “chaordic” pattern, which we see at work in living systems. When allowed to run its course, it culminates in levels of self-organisation, performance and commitment that can be quite breath-taking.

Personal reflection: relevance to the Commission
I had already had enough experience of the techniques described above before the training to convince me of their enormous relevance to the work of the Commission. During the four days of this training, I came to appreciate that unless we, as participants in these conversations, are prepared to connect with our humanity, the process will not work. If we can engage, though, individually and collectively we can garner the responsibility and passion needed to move into our future with powerful confidence and effectiveness.

In my nearly 20 years of service I have observed how the Commission organises itself both internally and in its relations with the outside world. We do not have a culture of listening to each other. We are risk averse and trust is low. The good news is that there is a real will to become a learning organisation and the recent experience of the Learning Day on 19 November shows that there are very many colleagues who long to answer this call. I am convinced that the Commission can learn how to host its own conversations, and those that need to be held out in the world, in the spirit of the Art of Hosting. As it does so, it can have an inestimable impact for innovation and renewal in every arena where it chooses to engage.

(1) The Commission has already started to engage in this technique. Two knowledge cafés were held at the Learning Day on October 19, with powerful effects.
(2) The Commission’s burgeoning expertise in making Mind Maps will contribute inestimably to effective harvesting.

Which are the burning questions that you are participating with?

As part of the preparation for the participants themselves and even more for helping the design of the training by the facilitators, participants where asked to answer three questions before the event started. Here they are:

In which context do you wish to use the skills you attain during this training?

In which context do you wish to use the skills you attain during this training?

Sander: I’m organising an Business Conference for The Hunger Project end of October and I am looking for a tool to do a 45 min workshop with 250 participants. I was thinking of World Café and I hope to learn (just in time) how I could use that tool.
Besides I’m working with managementteams and groups quite often, so I hope this workshop will be very helpful for me.

Margaret: Within my own organisation, mostly. (translation department for Eur. Union)

Helen: (i) the European Commission
(ii) a center for human emergence in belgium

Erik:
In the classes I teach.
In the university meetings I attend and that I should convene (but I’m not…)
In the conversations I try to convene or help convene in the agricultural and food sector with all kinds of stakeholders (from farmers to politicians)
In an international academic conference I am organizing and that will take place in 2008.
In the “oudercomité” (parents council) I am member of.
In life

Frauke:
- Continue to use it in my current networks: AIESEC, Pioneers of Change, We Are What We Do, Greenpeace
- Maybe even use it more in my professional area or as a profession?!

Jos:
I am helping people in organizations to get a feel for their potential and what blocks them to use this potential. This requires a safe context in which people can connect with each other. The art of hosting can help to create this context.

Hilde:
* Education is a field of interest in my work and in my life.
* Communication and social skills, mediation, intercultural questions
* In writing and storytelling
* Perhaps in a brand-new context, I even can't imagine at this very moment...

Monique:
Hosting sessions with stakeholders and using the feedback to update the Foundation's strategy and focus.

Rik:
- Profess.: Buitenkans: facilitating authentic out-door meeting, learning and getting sense
- Private: family-; friends; groups; community

Julian:
every day family life (5kids)
coaching individuals
systemic coaching
interim or crisis management

Philipp:
* in my professional life, especially in training and consulting projects
* during my social engagement, for example in Pioneers of Change or the Junior Chamber of Commerce
* most probably in my own company within the next 4-5-6 years ...

Dettie:
Every day life: my kids, husband, friends, neighbours, colleagues,...

Hannelore:
I use discoveries, findings and skills 24 hours a day: to enable my inner leader to speak up for the benefit of myself and others. I whish to leave no chances unused to enrich the possibilities.

Jessica:
Directly for the WWf project but in my job in general, and hopefully in my personal life too.

Nicole:
In my professional and social contexts. In situation in which we are asked to connect with each other and participate actively to a project.

Federike:
In my whole life context: personal life, working life and social life in general.

Marie-Bernadette:
- professional:
o in the several meetings we have as a team, especially when I am the ‘chairman’,
o in the ‘network with principals of secundary schools’
- personal:
o in conversations with my children (both adults) and with my friends

George:
I have several contexts. The most immediate is co-hosting a community of AoH practitioners online, in an expanded extension of this space.

Toke:
* In my life and work every day
* In my work with training the art of hosting that I am part of in Denmark, Israel, Boulder, Columbus, Zimbabwe, UK and....
* In hosting many spaces and conversations in the months and years to come .....

Agnes:
I'm working within a university college; the place where I would like to use the attained skills.

Which are the burning questions that you are participating with?

Sander: Well, I’m sorry to say, but I can’t think of “burning”questions right now, maybe they will come later. It’s more that I liked the brochure and the fact that tools as Open Space, World Café and AI are discussed and trained.

Margaret:
- How can I change the meetings culture of my organisation from the traditional model of "Agenda - battle - minutes" to one where we really
communicate and inspire each other?
- How can we approach our work for the benefit of the whole organisation
instead of (or better: as well as) our own corners?
-How can we communicate better within our organisation and with other
organisations?

Helen:
How can I harness collective intelligence in an orange/green environment with blue procedures?

Erik:
Who and how do you invite people into the conversation, when you need people of all colors (in terms of Spiral)?

Particularly, how do you motivate individuals at the periphery of the conversation to join in, stay and contribute, when their stake in the conversation is very indirect? In other words, how do you find the balance between diversity and interest, when you know that you need diversity to co-create really radical innovations?

If you have to slow down to be able to accelerate, when do you take-off?

How do you find the courage, the energy to convene?

Frauke:
* What can I learn from consultants who use AoH on a professional level? Is that an area where I see my professional future?
* How do I deal with strong emotional responses from participants using AoH (i.e. tears, frustration that expectations have not been met since usual training methods were expected)?
* How can we build a (virtual) network of AoH practitioners? 

Jos:
In my experience the conversations I organize go rather well and are lively. The question I have is how to create a lively conversation that is really meaningful as a collective at the end of the meeting when the final thoughts are pulled together, such that people really feel committed to follow-up. I suspect that the answer to this question depends also on how involved and committed the participants are upfront and whether they feel enough that there is enough safety. But nevertheless, how to create energy and inspiration at the end so people finish with excitement and are eager to take their responsibility. How to create the proper context so meaningful conversations lead really to co-creation?

Hilde:
* How to cope with the logic of large organisational systems as an individual?
* How to balance between dependence and self responsibility?  I once read this quote: 'A system is the struggle of an individual to fit in a larger context'. So what is this larger context then? What's the pattern underneath? Can I explore it with others? What attitudes, instruments, methods 'll help? What kind of experiences?

Monique:
What is the best way to open up people's mind and mouths with regards to hosting style, tone of voice etc.

Rik:
What's new? What 's growing? What can be revealed?
On what points will I learn?
Who am I going to meet?
(How am I going to handle our language-(handicap?))

Julian:
Where's the tipping point in our understanding of complexity in human systems?
How will we know that the conditioned self has become explicit, and that it can be worken on and brought into balance?

Philipp:
* well, quite simple ones - first just being curious to find out what are the other persons being interested in the issue
* getting new ideas and methods I can use for my professional life and other projects I'm involved
* and just getting in touch with new ideas

Dettie:
* How to inspire, motivate myself and others to grow in depth by having meaningful conversations?
* How to feel at ease as their hostess?
* How to guide/talk people to their OWN highest potential? Is is possible to HOST people to their highest potential?

Hannelore:
* What can be my role in creating spaces for dialogue?
* Do I look and search for the right space and use it?

* Can I also co-create such a space?

Jessica:
What does it mean to ‘host artfully’ and what skills and understanding will I leave with that will help to make my role within the WWF project and my other projects at The Environment Council more effective?
Who are the other people attending and what is their experience/what can I learn from them?

Nicole:
How to apply AOH in my working and social life?
How to stimulate the sense of responsibility? Excluding the concept of competition.

Federike:
I know how to create my life, it is amazing how things have unfolded for me; I got everything I wished for so far. My intentions are strong and crystallysing easily. And now the question is: how can I do that with other persons? How can I co-create with my boy-friend, with my working partners, with an unknown group of people, and with the whole society?

Marie-Bernadette:
-    What can I do to make conversations meaningful in professional circumstances as well as in personal circumstances?
-    What can I do to motivate individuals to take part of a conversation, especially when their contributions seems not meaningful at first sight? 

George:
How can AoH, Open Space, World Cafe, Appreciate Inquiry, and other social technologies scale up and be comnined with Theory U, also known as "presencing," so that they can be more effective in addressing the world problematique (or crisis of crises)?

Toke:
* Who am I when I live in harmony with life itself ?
* Who are we when we connect on a deeper level and learn together as human - and whom do we serve ?
* What kind of society will we co create when living and working more consciously, compasionately and from the heart ?

Agnes:
* How can I build up an authentic life that is meaningfull for my broader environment?
* How can I function within a bureaucratic, hierarchical system whithout getting loaded with negative energy, coming out of frustration?

 

Which are the burning questions that you are participating with?

Sander: Well, I’m sorry to say, but I can’t think of “burning”questions right now, maybe they will come later. It’s more that I liked the brochure and the fact that tools as Open Space, World Café and AI are discussed and trained.

Margaret:
- How can I change the meetings culture of my organisation from the traditional model of "Agenda - battle - minutes" to one where we really
communicate and inspire each other?
- How can we approach our work for the benefit of the whole organisation
instead of (or better: as well as) our own corners?
-How can we communicate better within our organisation and with other
organisations?

Helen:
How can I harness collective intelligence in an orange/green environment with blue procedures?

Erik:
Who and how do you invite people into the conversation, when you need people of all colors (in terms of Spiral)?

Particularly, how do you motivate individuals at the periphery of the conversation to join in, stay and contribute, when their stake in the conversation is very indirect? In other words, how do you find the balance between diversity and interest, when you know that you need diversity to co-create really radical innovations?

If you have to slow down to be able to accelerate, when do you take-off?

How do you find the courage, the energy to convene?

Frauke:
* What can I learn from consultants who use AoH on a professional level? Is that an area where I see my professional future?
* How do I deal with strong emotional responses from participants using AoH (i.e. tears, frustration that expectations have not been met since usual training methods were expected)?
* How can we build a (virtual) network of AoH practitioners? 

Jos:
In my experience the conversations I organize go rather well and are lively. The question I have is how to create a lively conversation that is really meaningful as a collective at the end of the meeting when the final thoughts are pulled together, such that people really feel committed to follow-up. I suspect that the answer to this question depends also on how involved and committed the participants are upfront and whether they feel enough that there is enough safety. But nevertheless, how to create energy and inspiration at the end so people finish with excitement and are eager to take their responsibility. How to create the proper context so meaningful conversations lead really to co-creation?

Hilde:
* How to cope with the logic of large organisational systems as an individual?
* How to balance between dependence and self responsibility?  I once read this quote: 'A system is the struggle of an individual to fit in a larger context'. So what is this larger context then? What's the pattern underneath? Can I explore it with others? What attitudes, instruments, methods 'll help? What kind of experiences?

Monique:
What is the best way to open up people's mind and mouths with regards to hosting style, tone of voice etc.

Rik:
What's new? What 's growing? What can be revealed?
On what points will I learn?
Who am I going to meet?
(How am I going to handle our language-(handicap?))

Julian:
Where's the tipping point in our understanding of complexity in human systems?
How will we know that the conditioned self has become explicit, and that it can be worken on and brought into balance?

Philipp:
* well, quite simple ones - first just being curious to find out what are the other persons being interested in the issue
* getting new ideas and methods I can use for my professional life and other projects I'm involved
* and just getting in touch with new ideas

Dettie:
* How to inspire, motivate myself and others to grow in depth by having meaningful conversations?
* How to feel at ease as their hostess?
* How to guide/talk people to their OWN highest potential? Is is possible to HOST people to their highest potential?

Hannelore:
* What can be my role in creating spaces for dialogue?
* Do I look and search for the right space and use it?

* Can I also co-create such a space?

Jessica:
What does it mean to ‘host artfully’ and what skills and understanding will I leave with that will help to make my role within the WWF project and my other projects at The Environment Council more effective?
Who are the other people attending and what is their experience/what can I learn from them?

Nicole:
How to apply AOH in my working and social life?
How to stimulate the sense of responsibility? Excluding the concept of competition.

Federike:
I know how to create my life, it is amazing how things have unfolded for me; I got everything I wished for so far. My intentions are strong and crystallysing easily. And now the question is: how can I do that with other persons? How can I co-create with my boy-friend, with my working partners, with an unknown group of people, and with the whole society?

Marie-Bernadette:
-    What can I do to make conversations meaningful in professional circumstances as well as in personal circumstances?
-    What can I do to motivate individuals to take part of a conversation, especially when their contributions seems not meaningful at first sight? 

George:
How can AoH, Open Space, World Cafe, Appreciate Inquiry, and other social technologies scale up and be comnined with Theory U, also known as "presencing," so that they can be more effective in addressing the world problematique (or crisis of crises)?

Toke:
* Who am I when I live in harmony with life itself ?
* Who are we when we connect on a deeper level and learn together as human - and whom do we serve ?
* What kind of society will we co create when living and working more consciously, compasionately and from the heart ?

Agnes:
* How can I build up an authentic life that is meaningfull for my broader environment?
*